Post Date December, 03 2023
"I am already very old. One day in the lobby of a public place, a man approached me and offered to introduce himself. He said to me, 'I know you and will always remember you. Back then, you were young and everyone said you were beautiful. Now, I have come specifically to tell you that for me, you are more beautiful now than you were when you were young. Compared to your face at that time, I love your battered face even more.'" ——"The Lover" by Duras
"Dating with a young man is a lively romantic trend nowadays," said Marian Salzman, a fashion expert from New York, in a related article by the American magazine Glamour. "The American version of ELLE describes this phenomenon in more poetic language:" Hunting for a young man is a bit like having a wonderful martini at noon. "
Women are older and men are younger, which runs counter to traditional culture. In ancient times, child brides found someone who was a little older than their husband and could take care of him. In fact, they also found a helper. Why do you think boys are older than girls now? It's just that people think men need a career to take care of girls. In China, the combination of women and men is somewhat deviant and runs counter to traditional culture.
Therefore, even if the world can tolerate it, it may not be optimistic about it. They believe that age can cause many problems for two people, both physically and psychologically. The disadvantage often pointed out is that when a woman reaches the age of marriage and childbirth, her younger brother may not have finished what he should have done before getting married. That is the unrealistic aspect of "brother-in-law love".
"In today's era, competition is becoming increasingly fierce to find a sister to share the pressure. The traditional stereotype of male supremacy and male inclusiveness has been broken, and the psychological load men bear in society and family has approached a critical point. Therefore, from the inner world, they yearn for their other half to share various pressures with them.". "That kind of vase like little girl is obviously not suitable, while women who already have some life experience often can advance and retreat together with themselves.".
"My sister's experience, wisdom, warmth, and even the subtle charm emanating from her accumulated fat have made men yearn for it. Some people call it the" deep aroma of ripe apples, "rather than the superficial flow of flowers.". Nowadays, men are very tired, and they are more eager for this full embrace. Sister's understanding and tenderness can alleviate the pressure and depression in men's hearts, which has a good therapeutic effect.
"Men mature through women, waiting is not as good as cultivating themselves in the TV series" Close to You, Warm Me ". After being exposed as a junior, the dark split man who plays opposite to Xu Qing said," You only like mature men, and mature men mature through women! "Rather than breaking through high heels to find an" absolutely mature "person, it is better to cultivate a" little man "who is self-sufficient.
Have you ever experienced a brother-in-law relationship? Do you think it doesn't matter as long as the age of love? If you are in a sensational sister-brother relationship, and if your relationship is opposed by your parents, will you unswervingly adhere to this relationship? What are you most worried about when facing your older girlfriend? Do you find a sense of security with men younger than yourself? Can a brother-in-law relationship last forever?
