Men must be able to earn money

In psychology class, Professor Guan is teaching: "Last time after class, a boy handed a note saying, 'I'm a relatively introverted person, and I don't have any special skills. I can't play football, I can't play basketball... My only hobby is writing. After entering college, I saw that my classmates around me have both ways in communication and work, such as being a fish in water, being free and able, and I was very envious. I'm about to enter society, how should I plan my future?' Professor Guan, I think I should still be a masterpiece Home is better, and it's not bad to be alone, don't you think? "Should I answer this question?" Professor Zhou raised the note in his hand.

"Answers - Answers -" The students are in high spirits. "Writer's Dream" is a life-saving straw for many people who are afraid of competition!

Professor Guan put down the note in his hand and said, "Okay, today I will answer this classmate face to face - my attitude is simple: Anyone who dreams of a writer is an escapist and incompetent person..."

Before the words fell, there were already catcalls below.

　　 "Let me ask you, who doesn't know about a pen or a piece of paper? Being a writer is as simple as that, and everyone knows it. As I often say, first-class talents are in the military and business circles, second-rate talents are in the political circles, and third-rate talents are in the academic circles. For military personnel, you lead 100000 people, I lead 100000 people, and you have no ability. The 100000 who die is yours. What is required here is comprehensive quality, and it is a challenge, so the military personnel are the strongest. The same is true for business circles, Invest two billion yuan, and after three months, your family may fall apart. Why don't you do it? It requires the same qualities. Political circles are different. He can adjust and detour, and if policies cannot be changed, there is room for improvement, but he must be responsible. In academic circles, it's okay to fail twice, fail twice, fail three times... never. "The success or failure of soldiers and businessmen is clear at a glance. Only writers can advance or retreat, regardless of the outcome..." Someone nodded thoughtfully.

"When a famous writer was giving a lecture at a university, a classmate asked him how he could become a writer. He said, 'First, feed your family, then become a writer!' Professor Guan looked at everyone carefully, with a natural expression of deep love in his eyes.", "In the Analects of Confucius, it is recorded that once Confucius came to the State of Wei and saw that there were many people in the State of Wei, he said, 'How rich are you?' which means, 'There are many people in the State of Wei.' Someone nearby asked, 'What can I do if I am rich?' which means, 'How can I do if there are many people?' - The question arises, and if there are many people, what should we do? What do you think Confucius would say?"

"Teaching -" Everyone is very confident, a great educator.

Professor Guan smiled and shook his head, "Confucius said, 'Rich.' - Confucius said, 'Let them become rich.' You think that having people requires education, but you don't know that before education, you must first make them rich. Others also asked, 'If we are rich, what can we do?' - 'After people become rich, what should we do?'"

"Teach it -" everyone smiled knowingly. "Yes, only when people are rich can they be able to receive education. When they are not well fed or warm, education is empty talk. Moreover, talking about education to people who are not well fed or clothed is not kind in itself. Confucius is worthy of educating everyone, and the significance of his' not rich or not teaching 'is profound! According to psychologist Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, only after people have met their basic physiological needs can they consider the needs of safety, love, and being loved There will be a need for self fulfillment. "

"For example, when a young couple tightens their belts to live, on Valentine's Day, the husband bites his teeth and sends his beloved wife a large bouquet of roses. How does the wife feel at this time?"

"Romantic, right?"

"It's waste!" the students argued.

"Why don't you give me a pair of fur gloves? Look, my hands have frozen again this winter, and I've spent a lot of money in vain..." Professor Guan said jokingly, and everyone had some insights in their laughter.

"When people are nervous about their lives, they don't think about romance. That's the enjoyment of wealthy people. Let me ask you a common sense: When male birds pursue female birds, what do they give to female birds?"

"Bugs."

"Yes, once the worm is given away, the female bird will understand: This guy has a strong survival ability. Follow him, and our children won't starve in the future. This is a truth that even birds understand."

It's very quiet below, for fear of missing any words from Professor Guan.

　　 "'A solid granary is a knowledge of etiquette, and a sufficient supply of clothing and food is a knowledge of honor and disgrace.' Since ancient times, people have said, 'Hunger and cold lead to theft.' Being able to eat well and dress well can lead a normal life for younger generations. If there is no food to eat, even parents' things will be snatched to eat, not to mention brothers' and sisters'. When people fall into the worst state of life, they do not care about morality. This is the true nature of humanity. The Chinese philosopher "The true shape of humanity has been pointed out thousands of years ago."

"When food and clothing cannot be satisfied, it is impossible for ordinary people to maintain etiquette."

"If we hope that this animal nature will not appear and that our ideal human nature will be revealed, as well as in order to maintain social order, improve moral integrity, understand politeness, and live a happy life with each other, we must ensure that everyone has their own income. In other words, we must make money for everyone. Based on obligations, we must make money."

Must make money—— It seems that the so-called "people-oriented", we do not know more than the ancients.

　　 "When a male loses his ability to survive, he loses his natural talent as a male. History has shown that the misfortunes of a man and a nation originate from poverty. The so-called 'combination of poverty and disease' and 'extreme evil'... Therefore, you must recognize that earning money is a public virtue and pay attention to money. I tell you this: Boys, you can't play football, you can't play basketball, you can't write poetry, you can't play the piano, you can't cook. You can do anything "No, but you must be able to earn money."

Professor Guan's words are brilliant and penetrating. I feel that many boys' eyes are shining, I wonder if they are seeing pressure or hope?

"Finally, let me give you another example, and you should think carefully. For example, when the Spring Festival is approaching, the wife said, 'It's time for the Spring Festival. Our father and mother want to come to Shenzhen to see us and our little grandchild.' Her husband immediately said, 'What are you coming for? It's not for use at all! We're already busy enough, let them come over again, and it'll be a mess! Besides, how inconvenient it is for the elderly on the way!' What's the state of this man now?"

"Out of temper!" someone replied with a smile.

"Remember, all angry men are poor men. But in another family, the wife said, 'Husband, it's almost Spring Festival, and the elderly people all want to come and see us. We haven't seen each other for a year!' The husband said, 'Oh, good, good, we should let them come. In this way, you can let them come by plane.' This man is not angry, he is very calm.

Also, you see, our house, with seven or eight rooms on three floors, is cold and deserted, and the children are not accompanied to play. "Grandparents are here, or grandparents are here, and the family is full of vitality. How good it is to have vitality during the New Year!"! Why did he say that? "Because this man has money, he is not afraid. He has a place to live and has money to let his parents come over.". He has a way to show his filial piety, and such men tend not to lose their temper. Because he has a great deal of control and a good foundation, anything can be resolved and treated calmly by him.

Then, the family celebrated the Spring Festival happily. As the old man left, the gentleman asked his wife, 'Do parents have any requirements?'‘ "No, no, they were all very happy and didn't ask for anything." The gentleman said, 'I heard them say that the third is getting married and has no house to live in. They want to make room for the old house.'. How can this be done? "In this way, if we spend 60000 yuan in our hometown, we will give 30000 yuan, and our third brother will take 30000 yuan. We will build a two-story building for them to live in, so that our parents won't have to move."

After hearing this, the wife hugged her husband and couldn't speak. Which wife wouldn't be grateful for such a husband? "Okay, the house has been built. My younger brother said that my brother-in-law is a good person, and the whole village envies him. My parents are happy, and my family lives happily.". "30000 yuan is just his one month salary, and he is willing to give it up."

Professor Guan finally said, "You can choose which one you want to do. However, remember: knowledge does not necessarily bring money, earning money depends on ability."