Post Date December, 03 2023
Pleasure with the new and disgust with the old is a common saying that women often say to men, with some resentment and also showing some helplessness. The meaning seems to be clear to everyone, but in fact, it may not be comprehensive or accurate in understanding.
Our judgment or generalization of anything should be directed towards the majority, and only from the middle of the majority can we obtain comprehensive and correct conclusions and patterns. So, the accurate understanding of liking the new and hating the old should be that of course, liking is like; Of course, Xin is a beautiful or young woman; Old, generally referring to having a wife; And disgust cannot be understood as disgust or disgust, but should be grasped with a plain or similar meaning.
In fact, it's true that most men like new things, but they generally don't dislike old ones, which means they don't dislike their hair tied wives. They just say that after living with hair tied wives for too long, they become dull, silent, and lack passion, so they want to gain some new feelings.
But men know best that in this world, only a married wife is the most trustworthy, reliable, and least willing to negotiate any terms with him. The woman who can have no regrets and endure with him for ever is this woman. She gave him children, kept him in charge, and tidied up the house for him, keeping his life organized and dignified in front of others. A man knows these things very well. In his heart, he is grateful for everything that his wife has brought to his family, and he is also trying his best to create happiness for his wife.
Even if a man has a strong desire for new things, and some men have already broken through that line of defense and have a new partner, generally speaking, he will not dislike or abandon his hair tied wife. Because men are the least willing to let their backyard catch fire, it is an extremely shameful thing for men, and it is also the most cost-effective thing for men. Men like new things, but they need to establish themselves in this world, and face and reputation are paramount to them.
Of course, this cannot include men who break cans and fall. It is not difficult to understand why men always dare not show off their new love so openly. If they can hide it, they can hide it, and if they can find a mistress, they even need to "wrap it up". This is not to be afraid of people seeing it, but to know it, face won't come up or down. It can be seen that men love novelty, but they dare not reveal it. Have you ever seen a man in public, in a place where acquaintances gather, at a special banquet with a new partner? Usually not, unless it's a two hundred and fifty man.
But men have a very different attitude towards hair tied wives. A hair tied wife is an eternal honor for a man. Being with a hair tied wife for ten, twenty, thirty, or even forty or fifty years, and even forever, is something that others admire and praise from the bottom of their hearts.
These men generally understand. Even though his hair tied wife may seem so ugly and incompatible to others, it will not affect or change people's praise and praise of this man's character and the grandeur of his kind. Men always like to appear in front of the public with their hair tied wives, or attend grand party scenes, and consider this kind of thing as an honor. This is a courtesy, gratitude, and affirmation for their hair tied wives, as well as a praise, comfort, and appreciation for the men themselves.
Men know that in this world, there is nothing more joyful and comforting than their hair tied wife seeing their success in their career. A man will never forget that at the moment when he married his wife and bowed nine times, she handed over everything to the man. The path was uncertain, and the wife didn't know if there would be poverty, disease, risk, or suffering in her future life with this man. She was so ignorant that she followed her without hesitation and stepped onto this small boat.
Now, once a man succeeds, he should never forget his promise to his wife, what a man should do, what he should not do, what he can do at any time, and what he cannot do at any time in this world. Although he may still like the new one, he will never abandon the old one, and he will do his best to compensate his hair tied wife.
Of course, speaking of the general, speaking of the majority, we cannot exclude those individual and special situations. There are also men who sever their ties with their wives, and then go to worship their new love three times, nine buckles, and bridal chamber candles. This situation is more complex, some women have their own problems, some men have such problems, and generally they are principled and unforgivable problems, so a romantic relationship is over.
But this is still a minority, for most men, they still prefer new things rather than old ones.
