According to a report by the Daily Mail, scientists have found that to win a man's heart, either a shy smile or insinuation is not effective. According to this latest study conducted in the United States, men prefer women to speak in a straightforward manner. From this perspective, the best way to win men's favor is to leave them no room for misunderstandings about your intentions.
This study found that men and women have a greater chance of successful conversations by directly asking questions such as' Do you like a hearty dinner? 'or' Do you need my phone number? 'to avoid misunderstandings. Researchers from Bucknell University in Pennsylvania, USA, say that men prefer to be straightforward because they find it very difficult to "understand" women's cues, even if they are often accompanied by some flirting body language.
These scientists asked a group of women what words they most commonly use to chat with men. They collected 50 of the most common answers and asked 70 men and women. Male participants found that directly inviting women to dinner or watch a movie was the most attractive way of socializing. Exchanging phone numbers is the second most common method of communication. Next is an indirect invitation, such as' What are you planning to do later 'or' What are you planning to do tonight '. Women also believe that direct communication is the best method of communication, but they are also interested in intentionally determining common interests. But the most clumsy way of talking is to smile and say at the beginning, 'You look very familiar, I seem to have seen you somewhere'.
Psychologist Dr. Joel Wade said, "Providing men with a direct and clear date suggestion and possible date suggestion is better than sending men indirect nonverbal signals to guess." He said that direct advice can avoid any unnecessary misunderstandings. However, any woman looking for a long-term romantic partner will think twice about giving her phone number to a stranger, as others may think she is too anxious.
Surprisingly, choosing to talk about the weather is a good suggestion for men who want to strike up conversations with women. An early study found that 'it's hot today, isn't it? This is the best weather for training a marathon' is a good way for a man to show off his intelligence and athletic abilities. I want to know if you can still put my Mercedes Benz keys in your bag? "Is the last thing a man should say when chatting up a woman.