Men increase the success rate of blind dates and make her fall in love with you at first sight

How can men improve the success rate of blind dates? With the development of China's national conditions, many people are left in the industry of leaving behind men and women due to various reasons. Therefore, blind dates are currently popular, and family and friends around them always urge them to get married. However, for people who have never met before, it is still necessary to do enough homework to leave a good impression, especially for male friends. So, how can men improve the success rate of blind dates?

1. Positioning oneself

It doesn't matter if a man is poor, they are afraid of being poor and have backbone. They should have a clear understanding of themselves. The second party cannot climb up or look down on the other party, which should be positioned based on their income, family age, and appearance.

2. Avoid selling oneself too much to the other party

Dating is not about making friends, not being able to say anything. Your past life and emotional experiences require two people to deeply interact and gradually understand each other. If you sell yourself too much in the first meeting, it will make the other person absolutely dependent on your relationship too much. If there are any difficulties in your future marriage life, you will complain to the people around you, and he will become the target of criticism. This may make the other party feel resistant and unwilling to engage in in-depth interactions with you. So when we meet for the first time, just grasp the degree and give a rough idea. The more mysterious a person is, the more interested they will be in you.

3. Please do not breach your appointment, be late or leave early

Whether it's an interview gathering or a missed appointment, it can make others' impression of you worse. If the delay is due to force majeure, please inform the other party in advance.

4. Waiting for the Rabbit Period

Once the best time is missed, when blind dates change from habit to suffering again, all one can do is rely on the yin and virtue of previous lives. Since regret has no effect, then place your heart in work or show filial piety to your parents, and wait for the "oversized pie" that falls from the sky. Amen, I can only offer my blessings.

5. Humorous men are more pleasing

Don't say things that sound self deprecating or flattering during blind dates. For example, emphasizing 'I have a graduate degree' or 'I have a house and a car' at the beginning of the conversation can make women think you are too superficial. Secondly, "I think you are the most beautiful person I know" and other failed opening remarks. When chatting with women, men can prepare a few healthy jokes in advance to enhance mutual understanding in a relaxed and humorous atmosphere, sincerely express their personalities and hobbies, and politely inquire about each other's interests, all of which contribute to communication and understanding between both parties.

6. First impressions are important

In psychology, there is the concept of primacy effect, which means that once the first impression is established, the subsequent information organization and understanding will be completed according to the first impression. The proximate effect refers to the fact that the newly obtained information has a greater impact than the previously obtained information. Generally speaking, familiar people, especially close ones, are prone to the appearance of proximate effects. The primacy effect is easy to appear between unfamiliar people, and the primacy effect is more obvious in the process of dating, and the recency effect will play a more important role in the future communication process.

7. Quickly find the intersection with the other party

If the person you encounter is vastly different from your experience and has a completely opposite mindset, and you cannot find a common topic, you should appropriately repeat the other person's viewpoint to show that you are in the same position as them. In this way, the other party will develop a sense of self satisfaction and double their liking for you!

8. Pay attention to your eating habits.

Many boys don't pay attention to this. When eating, it is best to keep your mouth closed and avoid exposing the food being chewed. American gender relations expert Della Casa said that when boys order, they should try to avoid dishes with soup and water, and avoid foods with too much garlic and onions.

9. Please smile again with a sunny smile

A true smile is not as simple as lifting the corners of the mouth, but rather engaging in muscle movements with relaxation and moderation. A study has found that the infection effect of a toothless smile is nearly 30% higher than that of a pursed smile. Don't worry about uneven teeth. 70% of Asian men say they like girls who often smile and have small tiger teeth! And women prefer to see the sunny side of men.