Men and women in marriage never have true right and wrong, but they have eternal "wisdom". Love begins with moving and moving. Marriage is maintained by little labor. Married women never relax and cultivate good men at home. So how can they be considered good men at home? Now listen to the wonderful comments of Xiaobian.
Some behaviors may be nothing to men, but they are likely to have a fatal destructive effect on marriage, and women will feel uneasy and scared.
Frequently comment on the advantages of other women:
Comparing your spouse with other women can make marriage life very bad. At first you may not feel anything, but when your other half starts to feel worried about it, it will become a time bomb. Therefore, take the time to pay more attention to the advantages of your partner, which will make your relationship more harmonious.
Don't listen to her when she is worried:
When your woman is talking about a serious topic with you, you should pay attention to her emotions and listen to her patiently. Don't impose your ideas on her, which will make her feel alienated.
Comment on her family:
This is too dangerous. She loves her family as much as you do. She should be respected and cared for as a member of her family. You can often ask her to call her family, and she will be moved by it.
Neglect her brothers and sisters:
Her brothers and sisters are also her closest people, and they should be warmly received when they come to visit.
Fight with her on special days:
On special days such as birthdays and wedding anniversaries, you should make yourself more enthusiastic. If you quarrel with her these days, she will take revenge.
Urge her to do housework:
Everyone hopes to have a rest and enjoy themselves after returning home from work. Women firmly believe that housework should be shared by both husband and wife. Therefore, helping her do housework will make your relationship closer.
Be silly in front of her colleagues:
Women all think that their husband is the best, and she can't tolerate others' bad comments on her husband. Try to make yourself more gentlemanly, even silly and silly, which will make you look cute, which is a good thing for professional and family life.
All these behaviors seem trivial, but they all reflect trust and security, which are what a woman most wants to have. She doesn't need how rich and handsome you are. What she needs is a considerate and caring man.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)