Mistake 1 of "being jealous": I don't understand "being jealous" at all
Don't be jealous? Don't get me wrong. Here is a simple external expression of people. As we all know, almost no one in the world can't be jealous. The reason why they show not to be jealous is that they are always using their inner patience, tolerance and generosity to explain it. Perhaps their practice is highly praised by many people in society, but I am very opposed from the perspective of themselves and marriage.
Because for people in marriage and love, "vinegar" must be eaten, and must be eaten seriously and openly. Only when you eat "vinegar" well, can you vent your bad feelings, and it is also the best and simplest expression of love for each other.
Give a cold shoulder to try whether a man really loves you
Mistake 2 of "jealous": "jealous" every day
We all know that occasionally being jealous in a couple's life is conducive to improving the relationship between husband and wife, and also beneficial to health. However, it is not good to be jealous every day in marriage. It is understood that most people actually want their women (men) to eat some "vinegar" in their hearts, which is an emotional need and a manifestation of personal value. But almost no one likes the other half to be "jealous" every day. Otherwise, even if you are more attractive and understand the art of marriage, the other half will one day get toothache and stomach cramps, and have to flee.
Mistake 3 of "jealous": "jealous" regardless of occasions
In real life, will you find that some people often eat "vinegar" from different places? As long as they smell the sour smell, they will immediately launch "vinegar mania" wherever they are, and often "vinegar startles four people", which not only makes the other half and themselves feel embarrassed, but also makes other people present embarrassed.
In fact, this kind of practice is quite bad. It not only damages your own image, but also gives others a chance to talk and take advantage of it. A smart person will give face to the other half and everyone, and also give face to herself. When no one or two people are at home, you can "raise the teacher to ask for sin". This is to meet the old adage that family shame should not be publicized and pacify people.