Post Date December, 02 2023
Lao Zhao has been a bit annoyed lately. At the age of over 40, although he has achieved great success in his career, the quality of his sexual life is deteriorating. He had to seek help from various health products, but the actual effect was very poor. Fortunately, my wife has found a 'good prescription'. She did not blame her husband for being "useless", but instead actively comforted and encouraged him.
Slowly, Lao Zhao regained his previous initiative and vitality in sexual life. He couldn't help but sigh, compared to those health products, self-confidence is the best tonic and supportive "medicine".
Men have two types of feedback on sexual life. If you occasionally experience setbacks during sexual activity, you may think that you are "no longer capable" or even become dependent on food or medication, which can lead to a vicious cycle of "the more you feel that you are not capable, the less you are capable". This is "negative feedback".
On the contrary, if you think you are "very good", you will be neither nervous nor afraid in sex life. Instead, couples can communicate smoothly, obtain better erection quality, and improve the quality of sex life. This is "positive feedback". The biggest difference between the two types of feedback is whether a man has enough confidence, which has a decisive effect of "thinking about going to heaven and thinking about going to hell".
Therefore, instead of focusing their energy and hope on healthy and "helpful" foods, men should take good care of their confidence. Everyone has their frustrations at times, and sexual life is inevitably not satisfactory, which is related to work pressure, fatigue level, and good or bad mood.
If one falls into the category of 'no good' when things don't work out, it's really underestimating a man's potential; If the idea of 'no medicine, no medicine' arises, it is even more misguided. Believing in one's own strength is where the 'right path' lies.
Protecting a man's confidence and the role of a wife are also crucial. Because wives are an important party in judging the quality of sexual life and the key to mobilizing men's confidence. When the quality of sexual life is not ideal, it is also the most vulnerable time for men. Gentle encouragement or sarcasm from wives can have completely different effects.
Lao Zhao's wife did not criticize her husband for his temporary "weakness", but instead actively guided him from a positive perspective, ultimately achieving a "win-win situation".
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)
