What is the most important thing in marriage? Money? Emotions? Personal taste? Although these things are important, they cannot occupy the first place, and trust is the only one that dominates. When there is no trust between couples, the relationship is like losing one's soul, and over time it will fade. Endless suspicion will only make the other party very annoyed and tired. Over time, both parties wanted to be liberated, so the divorce war began.
So, women should not endlessly doubt their husbands, marriage is the sincerity and responsibility they need. Faced with women's doubts, men can be very painful and even have difficulty speaking.
Endless suspicion leads to the breakdown of a couple's relationship
Women are born with a trait called 'sensitivity'. Women's nerves have a keen insight into external things like the antennae of animals. Of course, sensitivity also has its good side. It is an ability, but at the same time, sensitivity can also lead to excessive suspicion and suspicion.
A foolish woman is not sensitive, she can immerse herself in happiness in her simple feelings; A smart woman is sensitive, but she knows how to use it, knows when to be shrewd and when to be confused, and can control her own happiness. And only sensitive and foolish women are trapped in unwarranted suspicion all day long, feeling unhappy and ultimately losing what they are most afraid of losing.
In the process of managing a marriage, mutual trust is crucial. Since you have chosen the other person as your lover, you must trust them 100%. As the saying goes, 'Don't doubt when hiring people, don't doubt them.' Trust is a heavy gift. When you give it to your husband, even if he has done something wrong to you, in front of your trust, he will have a better conscience and stop at the cliff.
In fact, believing in your husband means believing in yourself and your own perspective. Look at each other with a trusting eye and understand each other with a trusting heart, and you will enjoy a peaceful and happy marriage.
A man's heart cannot tolerate suspicion
Generally speaking, a man's heart is broader than that of a woman. He can tolerate kindness, beauty, love, and small temper, but he cannot tolerate suspicion. Suspicion makes women exhausted and men exhausted. Families with suspicions seem to have hidden triggers everywhere, and they may ignite at a touch without knowing when, resulting in both losing and being scarred.
At the same time of suspicion, it can cause you to lose a sense of confidence, a sense of emotion, a sense of happiness and happiness. Suspicion seems to be a fuel in marriage, as it creates cracks in a stable marriage and divides harmonious families. Suspicion will never have the effect of saving or compensating. It can only accelerate the deterioration of the situation.
With suspicion, marriage becomes very fragile, and the relationship between couples seems to have come to an end. A deeply emotional marriage cannot withstand the repeated impacts of suspicion. So, trust can consolidate marital happiness, while suspicion can only destroy families.