1. Don't criticize his mother in his face.
Whose mother doesn't protect her short, and whose mother doesn't love her? The biggest contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not that they have different opinions on trivial matters, but that they compete for favor in front of men. Mothers want their sons to be good to themselves, and daughters-in-law want their husbands to take more care of their feelings. For this reason, mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, like rivals in love, are secretly competing in favor. A clever daughter-in-law will coax her mother-in-law, while a clumsy daughter-in-law will talk about his mother's mistakes in front of her husband.
2. Don't openly discuss his bad habits.
Everyone is not perfect, and it is inevitable that there will be some bad habits. For men's bad habits, women can find time to talk with their husbands alone, but do not disclose their bad habits to the public, let alone discuss their bad habits in front of their parents-in-law and siblings, and do not let your husband become the public enemy of your closest relatives.
3. Don't compare his shortcomings with other men's advantages.
People like to compare, especially women, or unconsciously use the advantages of other opposite sex to stimulate their husbands' neglect of life. Women's original intention is not to show off other men's good qualities, but to hope that their husbands can be more excellent. The result is that men will strike back at women like this: 'They are good, you should simply divorce me and live with others'.
4. Don't sneer when he steals at beautiful women.
It is an instinct for a man to go shopping with a woman and see a beautiful woman with more eyes, but it does not mean that a man is flirtatious. At this time, women should not be weird, let alone argue with men in a jealous state. Otherwise, it will make a man feel that you are making a fuss, making a fuss, or even exploiting his freedom. Being so careful will suffocate men.