Post Date December, 03 2023
Everyone will experience love at a specific stage in life. This is the most beautiful and special time in life. Because it is the prelude to a happy marriage and the sweet memories of both parties in their lifetime, it can be seen how important the love period is.
If men and women in love do not understand some love skills, they may bump into each other in the process of getting along, and sometimes even quarrel incessantly. This will not only hurt the feelings of two people, but also cause serious consequences and even end the relationship! So Xiaobian has prepared for you: 10 court-level love skills that men and women in love must learn! Please study hard and let lovers fall in love with their families!
1、 Know how to appreciate each other
We should often tell our lovers what we like most about him (her) - what we admire him (her), what makes us proud of him (her), and what advantages we think he (she) has. Let the other party know that our appreciation of him (her) is not only at the beginning of love, but throughout our whole life. We should constantly encourage and support each other. Only in this way can we help him (her) realize his/her potential.
2、 Gifts
We should seize every opportunity to show our love by giving gifts to our lovers. The gift can be a book, a special dessert, a piece of jewelry, a piece of clothes bought in the bookstore - no matter how big or small, just tell the other person that you are missing him or her. We can also leave a love note, and the studio sends a "I love you" message. These can reflect that we have been thinking about each other, and the other will have more confidence and sense of security.
3、 Show love from time to time
A small intimate action - brushing on the aisle and patting the other person on the back, sitting on the sofa with your lover's shoulder, holding your hand on the other person's leg when sitting next to each other, and holding hands when shopping - will make your partner feel deep affection and convey your true love. A small touch is very important, much stronger than the whole night's ups and downs.
4、 Tell your lover that you love him (her)
Although it is often said that actions are better than words, words are often more expressive and straightforward than actions. We should tell our love to our lovers from time to time. A simple "I love you" or "you are all I have" is very useful. It can make lovers feel concerned, feel love and feel safe in love.
5、 Open your heart
Don't close yourself and hide your likes and dislikes, ideals, fears, achievements, mistakes, etc. We can share important things with our lovers. In addition, we should ensure that lovers are the ones who share our secret and do more than others. Although it is necessary to reserve some personal space in front of the closest person, it is still necessary to spare as much time as possible to talk with the lover.
6、 Always be the solid backing of lovers
In life, when a lover encounters a sad event of losing his job or a loved one, we all know how to comfort and encourage each other. Similarly, when lovers are upset about quarreling with colleagues, having trouble getting to work, and temporarily unable to remember where to put the check, we need to know how to support and comfort them. Of course, the premise is that we can't accept the adversity and let it beat and scold us. However, when an argument occurs, we should still be a little cheeky, keep calm and rational, listen to what they are bothering, try to understand them, and at least comfort them.
7、 Strive for equality
We must abide by the golden rule in love: Do not do to others what you don't want. Lovers should share housework and other things equally. When you are not considerate, don't expect or ask others to be considerate.
8、 Eliminate the mentality of taking for granted
Every day we should be grateful for what our lover has done for us, and thank him (her) for bringing so much happiness to our lives. We should remember that every day's happiness in love is brought by the little things that our partner does for us (I hope we do the same). Never take it for granted. Love is a cumulative process that needs careful treatment. Once we relax when we open, love will gradually disappear.
9、 Understand the shortcomings and shortcomings of lovers
Our unreasonable expectations of each other are likely to lead to the failure of love. Unless we marry robots, we can't ask each other to be perfect. People always have weaknesses and shortcomings. These are personalities, not faults. We should learn to understand and accept each other's hobbies. A normal person will inevitably have some hobbies. We all know that our own weaknesses often make us feel uneasy, so we must not blame our lovers' shortcomings, nor intentionally expose their shortcomings.
10、 Make sure to spare time for two people to be alone
No matter how busy they are, make sure they spend one night in a week or two together. They can create new memories, share each other's stories, or just stay together and enjoy each other's company.
