Post Date December, 03 2023
A certain woman, born from a commoner background, was a young athlete at a sports school. She was seven feet tall and had aspirations for success. Formerly a program host for a famous city television station. But she married the only self funded college student in her hometown town in Jiangnan, who was handsome and sang well, and was content to engage in a self-sufficient workshop industry. The attraction of youth naturally results in two decades of deviation and conflict.
A woman and an elegant man, as the first deputy director and writer of an important hall, became infatuated lovers. After a decade of silence, he began to engage in the clothing industry with aesthetic taste, hoping to convey his aesthetic taste to consumers through clothing.
Two years of arduous work, sleepless day and night, sleeping outdoors and traveling thousands of miles. I lost all my houses and property.
Enter a state of mind once again that will never be undone. Just thinking about suicide and murder. The three character scriptures are as flowing as the river. Finally, he tortured himself to the point of losing all his glory. I want to consult a psychologist and take medication to calm my emotions.
A man began to persuade.
Says: All emotions stem from emotional imbalance caused by internal conflicts.
Inner conflicts are directly related to needs. You mainly have three aspects: love, career, and family and friends.
1. Love is between you and your husband.
Regardless of your desire for future achievements, self positioning, values, aesthetic level, way of thinking, cultivation, and language expression, there are huge differences between you. It's not that he's bad, it's that you're not the same type of person. So, maybe he can adapt to you, but he can't change; Maybe you can change yourself, give up and adapt to him, but it's even harder than killing you. The other is to find the balance point of each other, but it has not been found in the past 20 years. It is estimated that it is too difficult to find it. So the last way is to give up. Actually, you already have a conclusion and answer in your mind, but you haven't made a decision. It's difficult to give up on oneself and adapt to others; Letting the other party give up and adapt to themselves is tiring, finding a balance and taking too much time, so making a decision is not always a good way, but it takes courage. Giving up is sometimes more wisdom.
2. Career is the support of all your pride and confidence, and it is also the way to achieve your aspirations for the future. I mentioned a while ago that it's too difficult for you to do good deeds. Find a collaborator and handle throwing in funds without doing anything else. Everything requires you to think and decide. And your husband is your most loyal assistant, but unfortunately, he cannot decide and share anything, and even cannot independently complete the tasks you command. This cannot be blamed on him. He is a person who has become accustomed to working in the workshop and does not know the methods of collaboration and cooperation.
So you kept reminding, teaching, and blaming him, and the result was that he remained the same. You are not in a career, you are educating others. It's too difficult to do a good job when half of your energy is spent on educating others and the other third is angry because education is fruitless. Believe that no one can do it well. At present, encountering this dilemma, if I can temporarily put it down and first straighten up my mood and body, it is courage and wisdom that deserves my respect; If I can persist, it will make me awe. So the simple thing is to put down two words, while the difficult thing is to persist in two words. Whether you persist or let go, it does not affect your radiance. 3. Family and friends, the only way to avoid hurting your friends is to change circles.
Choosing friends who respect others and respect oneself can eliminate all unhappiness. Otherwise, I would rather endure and enjoy loneliness on my own. Choosing friends should not be indiscriminate - do not be overly enthusiastic towards friends because of your loneliness and lack of friends, in the hope of achieving harmony and lasting friendship. Because there are few people in this world who can truly show gratitude and reciprocate, and even fewer who can admit that they are not as appreciative of you as you are. Many appreciations are based on personal gain. If we eliminate the appreciation of personal gain and reach a pure aesthetic realm, we are afraid that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.
4. Done, I wish you an early release from your difficulties and true happiness.
The woman said, 'What you said is too perfect and in place.'. Whether I go in or out, it's always right. But I still want to commit suicide!
The man replied, 'Okay.'. When you really want to commit suicide, please let me know and I will listen to your last words. But I will definitely feel sad if you commit suicide, after all, you are the only female friend I know in this city with a population of 8 million.
