1. Viewing sex
Some people believe that men take sex seriously, and they view it as a symbol of intimacy and intimacy. There are indeed many young men who still hold this attitude.
Did he really accept me?
2. Overnight outside
Sex itself is not reliable, such as spending the night outside. "It's always embarrassing for me to wake up in the morning and find someone lying next to me," said Tago, a 30 year old law firm employee.
"I don't think the taste in my mouth is good, so is she, and we still wear yesterday's clothes.". I really want to stay away from her. If she wakes up and wants to hug me, she must be treating us like lovers. That would be terrible! "I can only spend the night outside with someone I particularly desire to be close to, and then our relationship will advance by leaps and bounds, which goes without saying."
3. Making breakfast after spending the night outside
My friend Ike asserted, "Do you still need to make breakfast the next day? That's a big test. At night, you've already got what you want, and you still need to make breakfast? Do you want to stay with her for a while longer?" Because even the simplest breakfast requires him to give up something, such as paying attention to the stock market and doing morning exercises with friends.
4. Allow you to use his beloved
Xiao Lin loves his car like a treasure, and no one can easily borrow it. "If you want to borrow my car, you must do exactly what I said, because I asked a professional to install an alarm in my car... But my wife asked me to borrow the car after we dated three times, and my answer was, 'Okay, no problem.'".
5. Intimate gestures in public
For example, when you are eating with a friend at a restaurant, he is touching you under the table, or when you are standing together, he slides his hand into your shirt and touches your back. These small actions are often invisible to others, so this is not to express your relationship to someone else, but to let them know that you share a space in the vast crowd.
6. Kiss you in a public place he frequents
This is a clear indication. Karen said, "About two years ago, I had a girlfriend. At that time, I liked to go to the bar for a drink after work. My girlfriend had been trying to make me feel intimate with her in the bar, and I always had lingering fears. I was afraid of being seen by other people I dated. Later, I realized that I didn't even consider us as a couple at the time, so I didn't want to make my choices public."
7. Allow you to see his collection of small objects
"There are things in my bedroom that will never be seen by a woman," said Rick confidently, such as photos of my old girlfriend, baseball cards collected in high school, and so on. But when he met Jesse, his little things ran out on their own. They have been together for two years now. "She spends more time with me than anyone else, so it's difficult to hide anything from her. I wish she could see these things, so she can understand me better."