Maturity is a bright but not dazzling radiance
Maturity is a bright and unappealing radiance, a round and unappealing sound, an atmosphere that no longer requires observation of others, an atmosphere that finally stops appealing to the surroundings, a smile that ignores commotion, a wash away extreme indifference, a thick and unappealing height that can be seen very roundly but not steeply.
Don't wait for understanding because you are afraid of being misunderstood by others. Life is now independent and everything coexists. The willow trees of the eastern family are shorter, so there is no need to explain to passersby the possibility of growing taller. The locust trees of the western family are taller, and there is no need to explain to neighbors that they have no intention of monopolizing feng shui.
Do a new thing, everyone immediately understands, that is not a new thing; Come up with a clever move, and everyone immediately understands that it's not a clever move either. A behavior without controversy is definitely not a creation, and a character without controversy is definitely not a creator. Any true creator is a departure from the original model, a breakthrough in social adaptation, and a challenge to the habits of the people. If we eagerly expect everyone to understand, the purity of creation will inevitably be greatly reduced, and mediocrity is beckoning ahead.
Looking back, even parents may not have a deep understanding of the decent things we have done in our lives. Our parents created us but couldn't understand us, that's evolution.
Life is not just about adding things. In interpersonal relationships, it's important to regularly lose weight and detoxify in order to easily move on to the future. Many people around us are actually blocked by the accumulation of fat layers in interpersonal relationships, and everyone can hear their gasps of satisfaction and exhaustion.
I yearn for the peak and height, but in the end, the peak is just a narrow ground that can barely stand. Can't walk horizontally, can only walk straight, only enjoy the pleasure of overlooking for a moment, how can one stop and sit for a long time? There was no way up, and it was difficult down. I felt a sense of loneliness and fear that I had never experienced before. The truly warm beauty in the world is ironing against the earth, lurking in the deep valleys.
The height of the ruler over all things ultimately constitutes self mockery. I had already noticed its hunger and playfulness, so I urgently came to test the steep slope of the mountain. Life is really difficult, you can't find anything without reaching the peak, you can't catch anything when you reach the peak. It seems that it is destined to continue going up and down the slope.