Nowadays, more and more women are in love with mature men, and there is even a strange phenomenon of "young women" paired with "second-hand men" in marriage and love. In fact, the editor has never been very optimistic about mature men. What is maturity? Maturity is the loss of a youthful mindset, without simplicity, only utilitarianism. Let's talk about the three major hazards of mature men in the traditional sense.
1. Maturity overshadows love
It can be said that maturity is the natural enemy of love. In love, there is no need to be too mature. Maturity allows love to skip many steps and also reduces romance. Love is an experience, an experience of savoring the ups and downs of exploration. It's like a thought-provoking movie, knowing the ending too early makes the process meaningless.
2. Mature and devoid of honesty
Of course, maturity does not mean not being honest or lying. However, some white lies come from maturity and are still highly regarded. However, regardless of goodwill or malice, lies are ultimately lies, and goodwill and malice are only a matter of motivation. Maturity represents the objective existence of such lies between each other, and goodwill and malice are only a matter of interest.
3. Maturity makes people addicted to material things
Mature people are often very realistic, and their interests are clearly perceived by them. So, they don't care too much about some optional romances in marriage and love, they focus more on the practical significance. So, in their view, the pursuit of material pursuits is paramount in the meaning of real life. Therefore, perhaps they will miss out on many of the most primitive and ordinary romances in love.