Erectile dysfunction is a fatal blow to any male. Scientists have found that erectile dysfunction is most commonly seen in men during three time periods, namely the newlywed period, the marital fatigue period, and the menopause period. Why is this? Let's take a look at the specific analysis and find a solution.
Male impotence is most common in the three stages
the couple joy in their marriage
What are the reasons for erectile dysfunction during the newlywed Yan'er period? At this stage, lack of sexual knowledge makes it easy to engage in sexual activity in a tense and anxious emotional state, as well as early sexual experience disorders such as insufficient erection and rapid ejaculation. In this way, the subconscious may bury dangers, such as fear of sexual activity failure and constant fear of not responding properly.
Newlywed erectile dysfunction refers to a condition where the failure rate of penile erection during sexual intercourse during the new marriage period is over 75%, and there are occasional instances of unsuccessful sexual intercourse during the new marriage period, which cannot be referred to as erectile dysfunction.
At the beginning of marriage, the man often has such psychological manifestations: impulsive, eager for success but lacking experience; Afraid of the woman's pain, feeling sorry in the heart; Worried about not being able to complete the "mission", experiencing impotence or premature ejaculation and losing face.
Based on these psychological factors, coupled with the fatigue and physical exhaustion of marriage, sexual impulses cannot be formed, and the penis cannot erect or becomes weak shortly after an erection. Once there is a first failure, the next one will become anxious, leading to repeated attempts and failures for a period of time. Therefore, they are concerned about suffering from impotence.
In fact, this is not impotence, but a normal reaction. If there is already a familiar process of sexual activity between a couple and they collaborate, this situation no longer exists.
Married for about 10 years
After 10 years of marriage, couples inevitably experience aesthetic fatigue and a decrease in interest. There is a famous monkey experiment in sexuality, where two monkeys are locked together and repeatedly mate. For a long time, monkeys have lost enthusiasm for monkeys, and the hope of finding new monkeys is an important reason for aesthetic fatigue.
After marriage, due to the wife's hard work for the family and children, her figure was out of shape, her skin was loose, and her charm no longer existed. In such a situation, husbands tend to find their marital life boring and unable to bring up sexual interest. Experts pointed out that such psychological sexual dysfunction is very common, especially in middle-aged men, whose incidence rate is very high. Couples are too familiar with each other and lack sexual stimulation, or the feelings of both spouses are not harmonious and have a sense of boredom with sexual life, which makes the man have a resistance mentality in his subconscious mind, and thus unable to erect, which is an important reason for middle-aged men's psychological impotence.