Marriage, let me get something, I sometimes suddenly feel confused.
For him, I left my parents, brothers and sisters, followed him to his world, tried to please his family, and forced a smile on my face! It will be like a lost child, subverting more than 20 years of life.
"For him, I conceived in October and gave birth once, willing to accept the pain that he could not imagine, just to have a child following his surname.". And then it's very realistic, with a deformed body and sagging breasts, will he suddenly feel disgusted?
"For him, for the sake of the child, you have even moved away from your circle of friends, saying that having a child is foolish for three years. You serve the child's food, drink, and salad at home like a foolish woman, and then eagerly wait for him to come home.".
Once upon a time, you also had pride, you also had dreams, and you were once as beautiful as a flower. In the end, you didn't have a beautiful country or a beautiful city, but you gave everything you had. Just in exchange for his sincerity, how humble. "Once you were extravagant and didn't take anything seriously, because you lost your income, you were scared to spend money, for fear that he might think you were spending too much.". You started buying vegetables and clothes and learned to bargain with merchants, which you once so despised.
Even in the end, women have to deal with things like contraception, either getting annulled or undergoing ligation. Few men are willing to undergo ligation for their own women. Is it women who deserve these sins?
Does a man feel sorry for everything you carry?
Wrong, he may take it for granted because you are his lawful wife.
Does he wash your clothes and bubble your feet on those days every month? When you are sick and sad, coax you and care about you?
Will he inadvertently bring you back something you've been thinking about for a long time but still wouldn't buy?
Will he give you the money and say he can buy whatever he likes, and my woman can never be humble? Women love romance, women care about the details of care, your men have achieved it? Perhaps if he turns in all his salary, he can go home and do some housework, even coax the children with you. He is the standard model husband in the eyes of outsiders.
"He may think that I've been working too hard all day, and he can't imagine how a woman spends her day.". Marriage gives women a negative number. More toil, less freedom. More responsibility, less willful qualifications! After reading this paragraph, I suddenly felt a bit distressed...
So if a woman doesn't love herself, no one will love you anymore! Remember to tidy up your appearance and mood when you have time, take a look in the mirror when you have nothing to do, and dress yourself up. How are you today?