Post Date December, 03 2023
My visitor Alice is a tall and plump woman. Her long black hair and red skirt make her more noble and generous. We sat on the sofa and chatted casually. Her voice was soft and soft. Sometimes a faint smile and a gentle look made me quickly attracted by her. Several times I have been thinking, what kind of man married her back home? She also wants to know what happened to her?
With the gradual understanding between us, I gradually heard Alice talk about her own emotional experience. At the age of 43, she is still unmarried. In her junior year, she had her first boyfriend handsome. Her talent and beauty attracted the envy of everyone. After graduation, they had a dispute over whether to stay or not. At that time, "young and vigorous, no one would let each other go." Al-ice went to the southern city in anger, and their love ended. Ten years later, when Alice contacted Jun through her classmates, Jun had married and had children and lived a plain life.
The second boyfriend, Nan, was met by Alice at work. He was tall and handsome. "He was very manly at work, and he was very nice to me, and often gave me small romantic surprises." Alice was soon immersed in the care and love of Nan. After a year of dating, Alice came back from a business trip and happened to see Nan and another girl walking close together at the airport, laughing and talking. This kind of scene has never happened between her and Nan. Alice didn't ask Nan why, nor did she answer Nan's call. She just sent him a text message saying goodbye. After a while, Alice left the southern city and came to Beijing alone to start a new life. She just turned 30 that year. In the next 13 years, Alice has also been married and in love, but she always feels that the other party is inappropriate for one reason or another.
There are many women like Alice. Some of them are over 50, some are in their 40s, and some are in their 20s and 70s. They have strong working abilities. Many of them are executives of foreign enterprises, and some of them are working in their own companies. They always complain to me that they can't find a man who meets their standards. They always say where all the good men are dead?
In fact, we might as well ask Alice a question, is she single?
No, she is married. With whom? Follow yourself.
Alice is a typical love purist. In her eyes, she can only tolerate the advantages of men, what is masculine, caring for people, handsome, romantic, and so on. However, the most gorgeous peacock has a bald butt, and the most handsome man has shortcomings, such as flirtatiousness, irritability, or a little metamorphosis. But Alice did not intend to see the peacock's butt at all, so she was shocked and ran away after seeing the peacock's butt occasionally.
When I asked some of the men she had met and met and the friends around her about her, I always hear such words: "I can't say; she is perfect; she makes me feel that I have nothing to do; she always puts on a high and not close appearance; she is very good, without any shortcomings; I can't go into her heart, do not know what she is thinking; she does not eat smoke and fire among people, I eat grains and cereals; if in the war era, she is definitely not killed or recruited..."
So Alice remained single until she was in her 40s. Are you single? no In fact, she is married, even the object she can't accept. Who? Your own shortcomings.
Love cleanliness is also doomed: to live with your own cleanliness is to marry your own shortcomings.
