Many men have said this sentence to their women: "I really don't understand what you're thinking in your heart." This sentence is enough to show that many small thoughts of women are difficult for men to guess, because most men have large nerves, and women's minds are relatively sensitive and delicate.
1、 A woman's appearance is pleasing to herself
As long as there are no issues with your marriage, the wife dressed up beautifully must be for the sake of showing her husband. This should not be a question to question at all, but sometimes men's psychology is also very strange. The wife is an unkempt yellow faced woman, right? Men will feel ashamed; My wife is dressed too beautifully, and I'm afraid she has a second heart. If a man lacks confidence and has a small belly, it's really scary. If a man is sour and doesn't pull a few punches and says, "Who should I show you this beautiful outfit?" Women will most likely respond with this sentence, "Can you manage.
2、 Always a treasure in your hand
No matter how successful a woman is in her career or how tough she looks, she always has a tender heart deep inside. Whether it's a big woman or a small woman, and no matter what age she gets, she still longs to be loved and cared for by her husband as always. After giving birth to a child, a woman may spend most of her energy on the child, which does not mean that she no longer loves her husband. At this time, it is really inappropriate for a man to distance himself from his wife due to inexplicable sense of loss. That old song was written well, until we were too old to go anywhere, you still regarded me as a treasure in your hands.
3、 The issue with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I just hope to get some comfort from you
When there is conflict or unhappiness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a man knows in his heart that his mother did something wrong, but even when facing his wife alone in private, he still chooses to remain silent. Over time, this situation will shift a lot of resentment onto the man. In fact, women are not as unreasonable as men imagine. Their mother-in-law is their husband's mother, and women do not really want men to blame their mother for anything. They just hope to get some comfort from men. To coax their wife is to be disloyal and unfilial to their mother?
4、 Receiving your gift is a kind of happiness
In fact, on some special occasions, receiving a gift from your husband is a very happy thing, and it has nothing to do with whether the gift is valuable, just the difference between intentional and unintentional. On birthdays or anniversaries, with a bouquet of flowers or a box of candy, even if a woman doesn't say anything, her face will exude a happy smile.
5、 When I return to my mother's house, I hope you can go together
Every man, when pursuing a woman, would go to his future mother-in-law's house to work as a laborer and pay homage. At that time, he might have been afraid of not finding an excuse to come to him. However, after getting married, especially after many years, many men are not very willing to go to their mother-in-law's house, maybe they have no motivation. Every Chinese New Year or weekend, I always encounter classmates who return to their parents' homes in the community. Most of them bring their children back and ask their husbands, saying they either sleep at home or go out to play. The faint sense of loss in their eyes may only be understood by women.