I can't imagine that Chen Yufan has passed the age of 30, and now he is still in a cool state, feeling like a young man in his 20s. Everyone said that whoever gets married would never expect Chen Yufan to get married, so the following incident was pleasantly surprised: Chen Yufan picked up a daughter-in-law from the TV series "Days Related to Youth" - Bai He, who plays "Qiao Qiao", and was quick and agile. The daughter-in-law gave him a son again.
Chen Yufan, who was upgraded to father, said in his words that the whole world has expanded a lot, with a sense of responsibility, happiness, and the wonderful feeling of being a father all coming. It was the matter of getting married and having children that enabled him to complete his transformation from a free and easy big boy to a man who was full of ambition. It seems that the matter of marriage is not only as simple as a "certificate", but also brings men a deeper experience of life and life.
Yuquan Group has already achieved such a high status in the music world. Is there any higher pursuit?
Chen Yufan: Music is our work and an important part of our lives. When it comes to pursuing it, we expect to go on more smoothly, without the so-called ups and downs. Just grasp our creative mindset and always maintain this mindset to do music.
"Days Related to Youth" You Surprised the Audience
Chen Yufan: Actually, I don't think my acting skills are very good. If you want to say that I can perform, it may be like singing, which is innate, with perceptual things inside.
And that electric shock also "touched" my wife... How did your love begin?
Chen Yufan: We don't have the surging love that everyone imagines. Our surging love comes from within our hearts, right? We don't have it in behavior. Everything starts slowly, not in a word or two. I feel very lucky, "Days Related to Youth". This is really a day related to my youth.
What attracted you to your wife?
Chen Yufan: The two of us are quite suitable, congenial. In addition, her life is cooler than in the drama. She has her own independent ideas, independent thinking ability, and mature thinking. The most important thing is that she is very real and kind.
You once vowed not to find people in the entertainment industry, but now you're breaking your promise?
Chen Yufan: She makes me feel that, like me, she is not suitable for the entertainment industry. She did not enter this circle because of vanity of fame and wealth. She really has a talent for literature and art. In order to pursue her dream of literature and art, it has nothing to do with fame and wealth. To be honest, I don't consider her a member of the entertainment industry.
Why did you get married? Is it because two people love each other to a certain extent, or is it because they feel secure?
Chen Yufan: Yes, I think the most important thing is that I met Baihe. "I am very relaxed in front of her, without any hidden intention. I am willing to tell her everything, so my life with her is very relaxed, and I feel happy every day.". More importantly, I really want to be a father. So the matter of getting married and having children, for me, is fate. It will urge you to want something and give up something.
Remember how you proposed?
Chen Yufan: There's no me in this proposal scene, because I went to work outside the city. Then I entrusted my good friend with customizing 999 roses and a proposal card to put at her door. The friend left and I called Baihe to let her open the door.
Her reaction must have been particularly touched, right?
Chen Yufan: I think no one, including men, is not touched at this time.
Do you remember what was written on the card?
Chen Yufan: I don't remember clearly. I must have asked her to marry me. I think I need to give her something that is not at that moment, but rather something that lasts longer. The so-called romance and emotion at that moment is not life, it's just love. At the moment we choose each other, what we look forward to is a lifetime, a lifetime long.
As a married man, what do you think of the popular arguments such as "love long-distance running" and "a paper marriage book is not important"?
Chen Yufan: Everyone has the right to make their own choices. Personally, since I want to be together, why don't I give myself a proof. "Two people just get along, and the moment you go to the Ministry of Civil Affairs to stamp, the moment you hold your marriage certificate, is completely different.".
What did marriage teach you?
Chen Yufan: I have taught a lot of things, and now I feel that it is really plain and light that is true. As you enter this state, you increasingly want to give yourself an explanation. "You will live to be 80 years old and not get married until you are 70 years old. You will always have a regret, right?".
Is the feeling after getting married the same as you originally imagined?
Chen Yufan: From some angles, it's still the same. "Because I won't change my lifestyle and state because I'm getting married and becoming a father, but I just want to add some responsibilities to my life and add a name to it.".
Do you think you're a good husband?
Chen Yufan: The concept is difficult to define. I think from a traditional or strict sense, I am not. Because of the nature of my job, a lot of my time doesn't belong to me. "Since my wife was two months pregnant, I have been working on projects for the Thin People band. Basically, during her pregnancy, I was working and didn't have much time to spend with her. I just stayed with her while she was giving birth, which is the only thing that I feel more comfortable about.".
What do you think is the responsibility of a good man in marriage?
Chen Yufan: I think as a husband, we don't mention happiness. At least, let's see our loved ones smiling every day. I think it is more realistic to do something that is easier to achieve than pursue the so-called happiness in concept.
What is your pursuit of love and marriage?
Chen Yufan: My wife and I, our concept of love is to live each day well. "We don't want to think about what will happen in 10 or 20 years now. There's no need to spend too much effort on things that didn't happen. More importantly, it's about how to live today well and accumulate each day for a lifetime.".
My son is now half a year old. When did he find the feeling of being a father?
Chen Yufan: That feeling didn't come all at once. It was only after my wife finished giving birth that I gradually felt like a father.
How does it feel to be a dad?
Chen Yufan: It's amazing. A life can bring you many new ideas, as well as a lot of sense of responsibility and happiness. It makes me feel richer in my life and completes my psychological transition from a child to an adult. "When I'm doing something now, I don't want to think about anyone, I have to think about him first.".
Now, what do you think is the most awesome thing to do?
Chen Yufan: The most amazing thing is that I have everything at this moment.