In people's traditional view, men don't care about their age, figure, etc. Only women care about these things. They always reduce the traces of time on their bodies through beauty, makeup and so on. In fact, men are also very concerned about these things. Otherwise, they will not abandon their wives and children and look for others.
If a woman wants to keep her man from being duplicitous, she must understand why a man is cheating. It is much better to hold him by grasping their psychology than you stare, search and interrogate him every day. Let's see why men change their minds.
Prove oneself still attractive
Like women, men are also very concerned about their age, figure and charm. Although they do not prove their charm through various kinds of care like women, this does not affect their desire to remain young forever. But it is much more secret than women. Why do most men find young and beautiful ladies as lovers? They want to prove that they are still attractive and cannot be underestimated.
Show off your status
Compared with the above reasons, another important reason for men to change their minds is to show off their status. Because in the traditional concept, only those who have the power and money can find a lover. The lover has become a symbol of status and status, just like villas, famous cars, and brand-name clothing. Beautiful lovers seem to be the live advertisements of men with status. An ordinary staff member of a joint venture has a low income, but since he got a lover, he found that even the manager seemed to look at him again. Men are far more socialized than women, and more affected by the environment and popular ideas than women.
Looking for a different style
A lot of men said that after marriage, women began to enjoy romance without any emotion. This led them to think of finding a more excellent woman. That woman should be different from her wife's style and style. She likes her partner to have a bit of mystery and attraction. Because of her long-term life together, her wife has been quite familiar with each other, and there is no beauty of distance. The lover just meets their psychological needs.
Simple physical satisfaction
This may be the biggest gain for men in this matter, because from the current extramarital affairs, almost all of them have the nature of easy sex. In the eyes of men, this is just a strange experience in life. If you live in harmony with your wife and husband, you will vent your desire and meet your physical needs in this way. At this time, the wife should try to improve your husband and wife's life.
Find a emotional sustenance
Some men are forced to marry someone they don't like very much before finding the right one, and they will dream of finding the ideal one day. Therefore, there have been derailments, but the proportion of such people is relatively small. There are many complex emotional backgrounds behind the life-and-death extramarital affairs. Such extramarital affairs lead to a high proportion of divorce.
Therefore, after understanding the reasons for a man's cheating, we should think of corresponding countermeasures, try to tie his husband's heart to himself, and not give him the chance to cheat.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)