Post Date December, 03 2023
I often hear some women complain, 'It feels like my man doesn't need me at all. Whenever I see him down and want to ask him what's bothering him, he always says he needs to be quiet.' Indeed, men like the feeling of being needed, dependent, and standing tall in front of their women, and refuse to show their vulnerability in front of women - because he is a man.
Men are no longer boys because they are mature. The world of boys is very simple: academic studies, games, siblings, basketball, nike are already their whole world, making friends is about loyalty; Men, on the other hand, are different. Whether it's for business or personal intercourse, they face various people every day. Some of them, who used to be brothers who had two sides, do indeed stab you in the soft spot. In this complex and diverse society, men have to rely on their character, strength, and perseverance to come and go calmly among the crowd, making it easy for them to make friends, but rarely treating each other as brothers who share difficulties.
Before encountering you, he had experienced many deceits and betrayals, which made him the one who could shield you from the wind and rain. It also taught him that there should be a certain safe distance in interpersonal communication, not too much trust and dependence, and to avoid being deceived and hurt.
Before encountering you, he had experienced many failures, which honed him into maturity and made him accustomed to facing the difficulties of life alone. A man will share his achievements with you when he is in high spirits, but he doesn't want you to see his failure and downfall side, and share his troubles with him. For men, what is more terrifying than failure is the way they look when others see them fail. Leaving a quiet space for a man when he fails means leaving him with the final dignity.
Every man has a city in his heart, which is a spiritual realm that others cannot touch and will not easily open to others. In this city, he is his own king. So between lovers: be intimate and have no other room; Don't try to touch the bottom line of their defense. Many times, men don't need promises, care, or comfort.
Sorry, he didn't want what you wanted.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
