Many people feel that they can't understand what the men around them are thinking, because they can do something extreme, very persistent, or forget these things at once, so they don't know how their rhythm is, and how to keep up with their rhythm of thinking. For example, when in love, the behavior of the man makes the woman puzzled, and he will be sensitive to all your behaviors, Sometimes good and sometimes bad. Understanding male psychology has become a course for girlfriends or all girls. Next, I will introduce some male psychology, which can be understood by people who encounter similar situations.
Absolute self: This kind of boy will ask his girlfriend to show his "advantages" from time to time and bring him some benefits. Once his expectations are not met or are not likely to be met, he will be angry and even feel that you have failed him.
Logical error association: This kind of man is usually full of association and suspicion. Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of lovers. Once his girlfriend does something he can't understand or is unhappy with, he will "think about it" and find out the evidence that you don't agree with him mechanically.
Non-emotional transfer into psychology: this kind of man has no sympathy when evaluating and treating his girlfriend, and does not put himself in the evaluation and understanding. Especially when a girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs to be treated emotionally, she often shows withdrawal or disregard. He can only share happiness with you, but not with you.
Wrong contrast: This kind of man often compares his strengths with those of his girlfriend, or with those of others. This kind of man can quickly find your advantages and appreciate them when he starts to associate with you, and your feelings will also rise in a straight line. But if he finds that your advantages are so inconspicuous, he will be indifferent to you. And this kind of indifference often makes you unpredictable and even becomes a temptation, making you feel more mysterious.
Conforming to the excitement: this kind of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense, but lacks autonomy and self-confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by the external trend, and he especially likes trendy women. Pay attention to the appearance and image of your girlfriend, such as her dress, hairstyle and clothing, and are very willing to invest in this area for her. However, once you can't adapt to his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain.
By understanding part of male psychology, it is accurate to say that most of these psychological activities are aimed at men who are selfish or whose ways of doing things are strange to girls. We have to deal with these people in life. It is beneficial to know their psychological activities in advance.