Marriage, like running a company, requires careful care from both spouses. If both individuals hold a indifferent attitude towards marriage, over time, there will inevitably be cracks in the marriage. American marriage experts once compiled a "happiness list" that plays an important role in maintaining marriage. Below, the editor recommends this "happiness list" to everyone.
Often do a small task for the other party
When there are problems with your marriage, you can calmly reflect: is it usually the other party taking care of you, and you have never done anything for the other party? If the answer is negative. So from now on, let's start by changing ourselves and getting up early to cook a hearty dinner for each other; Squeeze the other party's toothpaste well; Going home early after work, pushing off all social activities, spending time with your partner, or saying a gentle word for them will definitely bring different emotions to each other, and the relationship between husband and wife will also be sublimated.
Do something that interests each other every week
In today's society, there is a lot of competitive pressure. Men are busy running around outside, and women are also like this. Due to the busy work, there are few opportunities for two people to calm down and communicate. In the long run, this will make the distance between the two people's hearts increasingly distant. So, no matter how busy two people are, they should take time to communicate, such as holding hands to watch a movie or having a big meal together, which will enhance their relationship.
Occasionally take a short break for the other party
People often say, 'Distance produces beauty'. Couples who stick together every day are also prone to conflicts. So, in appropriate circumstances, it is possible to take a short break for the other party. For example, the male partner can gather with friends to chat about work matters; The woman can visit her parents, or go shopping with same-sex friends to buy a few new clothes. When she comes back, it will make her eyes shine, like a feeling of 'farewell is better than newlyweds'.
The above is the "happiness list" for enhancing marital relationships. Of course, it is not limited to these aspects. Only by constantly adapting, understanding, and accommodating each other in life can the relationship between couples become deeper.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)