The willingness of the "Price scissors" is to show the unequal exchange of the value of industrial and agricultural products. Nowadays, the concept of "Price scissors" has been put into the couple's life. It is not absurd to use it to explain today's marriage in reality, but very vivid and appropriate.
The rise of "male talent" and the decline of "female appearance"
In the young stage, the "female appearance" coordinate representing women's marital value orientation is at the peak of the social marital value curve, while the "male talent" coordinate representing men's marital value orientation is at the bottom of the curve. As time goes on, the "male talent" curve gradually rises, while the "female appearance" curve gradually decreases; Before and after middle age, a junction is formed; Afterwards, the "male talent" curve of successful men continued to climb towards the peak, while the "female appearance" curve of most women slid towards the bottom. For a considerable period of time, the gap between the two curves gradually widened, and their shapes resembled an open pair of scissors. After the age of 50, the two curves gradually become parallel and shaped like scissors. It is called the "Price scissors difference" principle between husband and wife.
The existence of the "Price scissors gap" between husband and wife is inevitable. Generally, it will not directly affect the harmony of marriage and the relationship between husband and wife. However, when the difference between the two curves in the "Price scissors" is too large, the marriage will be contradictory, or even broken. Therefore, the "curve" between couples should not be too wide, and the distance should be appropriately reduced.
Open the age gap and narrow the Price scissors gap
Firstly, the physiological age difference between spouses should be appropriately widened. Due to the fact that there is usually a certain time interval between the peak of marriage value orientation between men and women, with women appearing earlier and men appearing later, widening the age gap between men and women can reduce the mismatch during the peak period.
The marriage age difference between males and females is around 10 years old. If the age difference between men and women is 10 years old, and the two curves representing the marriage value orientation of men and women in the "Price scissors" curve are translated, it can be surprising to find that the "Price scissors" will be significantly shortened, or even non-existent, and more likely to overlap into a parabola. That is to say, the age difference of around 10 years is the best way to ensure the coexistence of "male talent and female appearance".
Cherish the Love between Husband and Wife, No Age Difference
Secondly, continuously enhancing the factors that maintain the relationship between spouses. In real life, the age difference between many couples is not significant, but their relationship is also very strong. This is due to many factors that maintain their relationship, such as the deep affection formed through mutual struggle, subjectively providing a solid emotional foundation for both men and women.
After having children, objectively both parties have a common responsibility to raise and educate, and out of love for their children, they cherish their current emotions even more; In addition, in long-term shared life, the interdependence of economic life also stabilizes the marital relationship.
The appearance of the Epiphyllum Blossom and the true love will be forever passed down
Finally, evolve the simple 'male talent and female appearance' into a combination of talent and beauty. With the progress of society, women are no longer completely dependent on men economically, so appearance is no longer the only benchmark for evaluating women's marital values. As a woman ages, her talents continue to grow, and her marital value orientation does not diminish due to the decline of her appearance. This also warns us from another perspective that those who choose their spouse based on appearance, if they are just an embroidered pillow, its essence is like a "flash in the pan", and after the passage of time, they will lose value.
In a word, understanding and shortening the "Price scissors gap" between husband and wife is to prevent and avoid the potential "emotional crisis period" becoming a real marriage crisis, so as to achieve the goal of jointly maintaining the feelings of husband and wife, family harmony and stability.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)