Since the main activities of love are romance and romance, and the main activities of marriage are daily necessities, pots and pans, and living at home, the more beautiful the ideal lover is, the more romantic the better; The ideal lover is the more real, the better, the more beautiful she can be, the more beautiful she is, the more likely she is to cause trouble and make her family restless. Therefore, men tend to hope that marriage is a lady and a talented woman, but they often have great prejudice against beauty, and think it is "the curse of beauty" or something.
However, this "rational" and "wise" choice is often limited to men when they are awake, or when they wake up from a big dream. The problem is that men often propose to their loved ones when they are overwhelmed by romantic love. What kind of woman can make men confused? Beauty, of course! Especially the coquettish and foxy beauties can catch your soul at a glance. Even the soul is gone, and there is no need to talk about reason and wisdom. Besides, men are naturally lascivious.
Therefore, for beautiful women, talented women and ladies, the first choice for men without hesitation must be beautiful women. He would stare at beautiful women with eyes fixed on them, and even the light from the corners of his eyes would not give to talented women and ladies. Beauty's greatest ability is to make men fall in love at first sight, fall in love at first sight and lose their soul at first sight. The man who has a beautiful wife in his family will often feel the pain of the "beauty disaster" and then focus on the talented woman or the lady.
Between talented women and ladies, men must choose ladies. "My fair lady is a good match for a gentleman"! Although a lady is not as talented as a talented woman, she still has some cultivation, education and self-restraint. The gentle, quiet and elegant elegance of Shuran is not as competitive as the coquettish and demonic, but it is more competitive, friendly and natural than the book aroma and volume.
With the passing of beauty and the fading of beauty, ugly women and beautiful women become wrinkled old women, and when absolute equality in appearance is achieved in front of God, talented women will become the most beautiful scenery. Because a talented woman has a full body of poems and books to maintain her, she will always be poetic and fragrant, and will never be old.
If a beautiful woman is a "disaster", a lady is a "beautiful woman" who is "on the side of the water", and a talented woman is a jar of old wine, which will make her old and fragrant. Therefore, beautiful women, ladies and talented women are often the first choice or best candidates for men in their youth, middle age and old age.
Why does marriage give men such a choice? Being married not only means having a warm body lying beside a man, but also means having a life guard nearby. In the dark night of life, men often wake up from fear, fear of failure, fear of vulnerability, fear of not being the main role in life drama.
A married guy knows exactly what he is going to do next: go home and buy some food on the way. When he gets home, say hello to his family, change into home clothes, make a cup of tea, sit down, turn on the TV and watch his favorite sports programs.
To sum up, because marriage makes men feel secure and calm, men always want to find a woman who makes them feel secure when choosing their marriage partner.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)