Psychologists say that men are more or less afraid of mature women because they are afraid of losing their sense of authority.
But the little girl is simple, she has not learned to question, and she has not too complete self-consciousness. She is a cup of pure water. You can brew it into tea or coffee; She is a piece of white paper. You can draw flowers or write words. She is her lover and mentor. Of course, little girls will grow up eventually.
A fountain of youth
Xu Anhua's film "Men's Forty" has two legs and one hand on the poster - a somewhat old hand pressed nervously on his leg, next to the girl's brightly colored thigh under the checked mini skirt.
You can hear a voice-over: The Chinese teacher in the middle school is saying to the girl, "You are going to take the exam..." The voice is inexplicably dry and unnatural.
At the end of the film, it was the man who was a Chinese language teacher who forgave himself and then went out.
The temptation of youth is really hard to resist. The question is, why should old men stop? So many old men took the initiative.
A success mark
The old man takes the young and beautiful girl to the party, often like wearing a Rolex. I once heard that an old man enjoyed the feeling of having a young wife very much: "When people who don't know see my little wife, they often think I am someone and pay special respect to me." In fact, he is just a white-collar worker who lives on salary. Here, the role of the little lady is the same as that of the brand-name clothes that deal with snobbery.
You have desires and I have desires. It seems that young girls and old men are "fair in trade" and "comparable in silver". However, the problem is not so simple.
If youth is important to old men, then young girls should remember that you will not be young forever. When youth is also gradually away from you, in the man's heart, you will change from a lark to a quail, and there will always be a new lark singing loudly.