Post Date December, 03 2023
"Jealous," the word used between men and women, means that when your loved one comes into contact with the opposite sex that poses a threat to you, your heart will feel uncomfortable, even particularly uncomfortable. In fact, this word is still widely used in life, and can be used between relatives and friends... However, the most commonly used word is between the sexes.
"Every one of us sometimes gets jealous, but it's just that the objects and degrees of jealousy vary.". So, is there any harm to being jealous for couples? In terms of gender common sense, what is the point of being jealous?
"Third party" leads to jealousy
No matter how generous a person is, when they see their loved one having intimate behavior with a person you don't know or who is not a close friend of the opposite sex, they will feel uncomfortable. This uncomfortable feeling is jealousy. Most cases of jealousy are caused by the appearance of a "third party", which breaks the balance between the two people and leads to one person's maladjustment.
Being jealous is a normal psychological state
This reaction is actually a very normal psychological state, which is a normal reaction to protect one's love from external aggression. Therefore, being jealous can be said to be a manifestation of love, and a little vinegar can become the spice of love. On the contrary, those who encounter a "third party" but have no emotional response are abnormal, and are likely to indicate that they do not deeply love their partner.
Jealous behavior varies from person to person
When being jealous, the behavior of jealous people varies from person to person, and different people have different behaviors. People with a high degree of jealousy tend to fully express their anger and dissatisfaction, while others suppress themselves and appear to have no trace of jealousy. Being jealous is justifiable in itself, but too much "vinegar" can become a killer of love.
However, whether being jealous will affect the relationship between the two parties depends on how the "jealous jar" lover resolves it. "If the lover of the" vinegar jar "can abandon love for freedom, then this love will soon end with a breakup. On the contrary, if the lover of the" vinegar jar "will abandon their freedom for love, then this love should be perfect.".
In short, it's okay to eat a bit of vinegar appropriately, which can adjust the feelings between both parties, but you always immerse yourself in the "vinegar jar". It's easy to get overwhelmed. So when you are jealous, you must master a yardstick and not go too far, otherwise you may lose your precious love and even lead to the demise of your marriage!
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
