My husband cheated, which was a bolt from the blue for me. I never thought that the man lying next to me every day would one day fall into the arms of another woman. I didn't see any signs of his infidelity at all. When he told me he didn't love me, I was unprepared, only my heart was bleeding. But he didn't say he wanted to divorce me, I know he couldn't say it for the sake of the child.
After my husband had an affair, he never touched me again. Although I argued with him and made trouble with him, in the end, he still couldn't break up with that woman. Since we were married for two years, we have had a lovely baby, who is the only person who can care about his heart, and I am now in his heart, worthless. I don't know when I started being unattractive to him. Maybe it was because I was wearing slippers and my hair was messy doing housework, maybe it was because I was like an aunt, bargaining with others at the vegetable market for a few cents, or maybe it was because I was nagging and making him tired. I was unprepared for all of this.
I tried to find that woman and wanted her to stop pestering my husband, but she humiliated me a bit. She said I'm always messy, how could I make my husband love me? She called me a yellow faced woman, menopause, and even showed me the kiss photos he and my husband took at the beach. How ironic it was to me. I couldn't bear it anymore. I had a big fight with that woman, but in exchange for the words "divorce" from my husband.
I feel sad when I see a child. My parents in law say they respect our husband's choices and don't want to interfere in our affairs. Let's make our own decisions. I feel helpless. The baby is so young, and I don't want this family to just break up. This is too unfair to the baby. But what can we do?
Reply from Weiqing Consultant:
He revolves around Xiao San everywhere, haven't you figured it out yet! His heart is not at home right now. He didn't tell you about his divorce for the sake of his child, but he said these two words because you had a fight with that woman. It shows that your position in his heart is frivolous now! What's the point of such a man guarding. Enron believes that divorce is your only choice, at least neither of them will suffer. In your current marriage, you no longer have the initiative. It is not recommended that you continue to survive in the cracks, otherwise you will be even more disappointed.