The debate about how to achieve orgasm for women is endless. What are the factors that prevent women from falling into a state of forgetfulness and experiencing pure explosive relaxation? Recently, Fox News invited experts to analyze the top ten issues that are most likely to affect women's orgasm.
1. Not understanding one's own body
Many reports have pointed out that women have a high probability of achieving orgasm during masturbation. And masturbation is the main way to understand and "get to know" one's own body, so to go crazy with a partner, one must first understand oneself.
2. My mind is wandering
Many girls are having sex in the golden spring night, thinking a bit more about what he thinks of me, are we cooperating well, am I ready to welcome the climax... After thinking about it, what a perfect foreplay and cooperation are all abandoned.
3. Short foreplay
Some couples are very impatient and do not give women enough time to get excited. Generally, women need about 20 minutes of foreplay to enter a substantial sexual state. Therefore, exploring various means to relax and fully warm up her is a necessary preparation for orgasm.
4. Sex can only be 'done'
Sex expert Laura Borman pointed out that only 30% of women can reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, while most women may need to stimulate other sensitive parts of the body to achieve it.
5. Self abandonment and self abandonment
Frustrated by a lack of response, worried about not reaching orgasm, and so lazy to give it a try, the results can be imagined.
6. Her partner cannot satisfy her
If you cannot achieve orgasm after experiencing various attempts, you need to consider whether it is a partner's problem. But don't blame him too much, instead strengthen communication and tell him what he wants and how to feel comfortable.
7. Love is enough
Women's romantic emotions can stimulate passionate sexual activity, but the frequency of orgasm does not depend on love, but rather on desire and sexual ability.
8. Victims of negative sex education in childhood
Many people have grown up in the public opinion atmosphere of 'sex is dirty', often feeling guilty about sex and finding it difficult to truly enjoy that wonderful moment of passion.
9. Using orgasm as a purpose
Orgasm is just a part of sexual activity. If you can have it naturally, it's great. If you don't have it, you should let go of the burden and enjoy every minute of warmth.
10. Health issues
Health problems, such as diabetes, heart disease, and taking antidepressants, can also prevent women from climaxing. Women can consult their doctors to solve this problem. Try using a new posture with your spouse to exercise pelvic muscles. During the process of sprinting towards orgasm, women should remember that they are sitting in the driver's seat and must be responsible for their sexual satisfaction.