Limit the other party's making friends and affect the relationship between husband and wife

Wang Bo is quite different from his wife in personality. He is introverted, likes to be quiet, and is very alert to the people around him, even a little "selfish"; The wife is very outgoing and straightforward, and belongs to women who are more "men", so she has many friends, especially heterosexual friends.

This time, his wife went to a friend's party again, leaving Wang Bo alone at home to sulk. He decided to "negotiate" after his wife came back. At about 8 o'clock in the evening, a car heard at the door of the house. Wang Bo went to the window and drove out. His wife came down from the car with laughter. The driver was a man.

A flash of anger rushed into Wang Bo's brain. He opened his door and waited for his wife to come back. The wife, who was originally smiling, immediately became stiff after entering the house, and her husband stood angrily in the living room. When the wife closed the door, the husband roared out and blamed his wife for all her faults. From her frequent making friends, she even rose to cheating. The unjustified grievance made her wife unbearable, and she began to refute and fight with Wang Bo

Confused by anger, Wang Bo took out his "killer mace" and divorced. The wife was a little silly. She didn't expect her husband to care so much about making friends. She had to compromise. A storm subsided temporarily.

In the following days, Wang Bo gradually increased his "control" over his wife. Even if you work late, you will be questioned for a long time. Such vicious coercion not only restricts the wife to make friends, but also limits her freedom. Finally, the wife could no longer bear the unreasonable behavior of her husband, and she took the initiative to divorce. The marriage between the two people broke down.

Limit the other party's making friends and affect the relationship between husband and wife

Most couples have different personalities and different ways of doing things. There will be inward and outward collision. For example, his wife is open and frank and good at making friends; The husband is introverted and arrogant, and does not like to negotiate too much with others. In this way, contradictions and frictions will occur sooner or later.

The introverted feel that the cheerful person's behavior is "excessive", easy to get into trouble, or cause cheating and other things that are detrimental to the marriage. So they imposed restrictions on each other's behavior to safeguard their own dignity and family harmony. However, this practice does not achieve the desired effect, but will destroy the feelings of the couple and even destroy the marriage.

Marriage is not a shackle. It requires mutual tolerance and understanding between husband and wife. It cannot be based on personal consciousness. Limiting the other party's behavior of making friends is like house arrest of the lover's freedom, and the marriage life like prison is not happy, and will gradually go to ruin.

(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)