Post Date April, 15 2023
First of all, you should understand that men like to help women, and being needed greatly satisfies a man's self-esteem. In many love triangles, whether in movies or in reality, men often end up choosing not the one they love, but the woman they think they can't do without.
Secondly, even if they find women's requests troublesome, men generally do not explicitly reject women. Regardless of female colleagues, schoolmates, teachers, girlfriends, mothers... careful observation will reveal that men really rarely refuse women's requests, and rarely take the initiative to find things to hurt women. If a woman is too unreasonable, men will only say "Who made her a woman?". For example, why a man is caught in a dilemma between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is because both sides are women who love him, and favoring either side will hurt the other. Your ex girlfriend is also a woman and has loved him before. How much do you expect him to give up on her?
Finally, you should know that the older people are, the more likely they are to nostalgia, regardless of gender. What a woman misses is her peerless youth and starry moon; Naturally, men also miss the charm and charm of those days. "There is a woman who once loved you and still cares about you. This little vanity is very pleasant to think about.". "If your ex boyfriend first thought of you when he was sad, thought of giving you a gift on your birthday, talked to you when he quarreled with his girlfriend and told you, 'She really can't compare to you.'" How do you feel? "? Surely there will be a little complacency, too?
The reunion with an old lover almost always ends quickly due to the influence of the solemn atmosphere. No matter how strong their desire to meet before, the two hearts will never collide together in an instant after several years, decades, or even decades of separation.
Men occasionally think about their ex girlfriend and even see that it's not really a big deal. Perhaps there were too many helplessness in the original breakup, but if it has become the past, then it is necessary to learn to forget that no one can return to the past, and one cannot live in the past forever. Moreover, loving each other does not mean possessing, and sometimes blessing each other is also a good thing.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
