Post Date April, 15 2023
Many years ago, the term "mistress" was not popular. At that time, people called married men's extramarital partners "lovers", "third parties", "mistresses", and so on. The most blatant period of male infidelity was before the Republic of China, when the feudal system of "polygamy" existed. Although there were main and side chambers at that time, and wives and concubines were divided, in fact, the "junior" was legalized. Women in the old era had no status or rights to speak of. Since the implementation of the "monogamous" system, women's marital rights have been greatly guaranteed, but the "junior", who is an uninvited guest, still constantly threatens marriage and family.
"Most men who cheat are just momentarily biased in their thoughts. They don't really want to abandon their wives and children. However, their husbands naturally feel uncomfortable with other women.". The reason Xiao San is so arrogant is because she relies on having your husband support her. It is inevitable that you are angry, but it is more important to deal with it calmly. If you mess up at this time, simply and rudely, you instead follow the path of the mistress and push your husband into the other's arms.
Know yourself and your enemy, and you will never be defeated in a hundred battles. Don't have a showdown with your husband before figuring out the situation clearly. Inquire privately about what kind of person Xiao San is, what are your strengths and weaknesses, and if there are any things you can learn from yourself. Although Xiao San is known as a "fox spirit" in everyone's eyes, she is your husband's favorite. Naturally, there is something that attracts him. If you can do the same, the situation will be better. Most junior girls are younger than you. These girls don't know where they are, and they think they can compete with you and take your place. They are either for money and power, or for true love, but deformed relationships are invisible. As a legitimate wife, you should have confidence in this battle. "You might as well save your husband's face and ask the junior out alone for a chat. With your absolute temperament, maturity, and demeanor," crush "her, allowing her to see her childish ignorance and automatically withdraw.". Avoid taking extreme measures, such as often seeing a mistress being beaten in the street on the news. Such bad behavior does not cure the mistress, but rather allows your husband to see your ferocious cruelty. How dare he still be with you? At this time, the third ran to complain and play coquettish, which made the man even more secure.
Never give up managing yourself. After marriage, a woman must not give up managing herself, and must not consume all her looks, figure, and temperament in the family, because this is a form of self destruction. "When one day your man is attracted to another woman, you should at least have the capital to snatch him back.". For example, you can also dress beautifully every day, maintain a sense of mystery with your husband, make him curious, start paying more attention to you, and virtually alienate the third child. If you have a job, that's even better. Economic independence keeps you motivated and motivated.
3. You have a large group of friends and relatives, while the junior only has your husband. As his wife, you have a lot more advantages than your junior. The child between you and your husband is the emotional bond between you two. If your parents-in-law get along well, they will always take care of you. Under public pressure, they will not allow their son to cheat, and relatives and friends can always help you in times of crisis. These belong to your family trumps, as long as used well, can exert a certain amount of pressure on men.
4. Seize the lifeblood of the economy. To master the economy is to master a big weight. If a man doesn't have enough money, let's see how long he can still be free with his mistress. In case the marriage is gone and economic conditions are available, the harm of divorce to oneself and children can be minimized. Despite legal protection, women are still sometimes at a disadvantage in marriage. A certain level of wisdom and sense of hardship are important, and rational handling of minor issues can protect their families.
