Love is like grasping a handful of sand, the tighter it is grasped, the faster it leaks. Similarly, the closer you look at the emotions between a couple, the easier it is for them to have problems. Therefore, it's best to leave some breathing space for each other to keep their love fresh.
What's the matter with you lately? Is there anything you can't say? "Wen Xuan anxiously asked her husband beside her, hoping to get into his heart and find the answer.
The more anxious Wen Xuan became, the more indifferent his husband sat on the sofa. He was smoking while watching TV, his brows furrowed as if someone had owed him a lot of money. But this is the man's thoughts, the more you ask him, the less he says it.
In the past week, Wen Xuan noticed that her husband had undergone significant changes. When she returned from work, she would excitedly say "I'm back" and would also walk to the kitchen to embrace her wife who was cooking from behind. Then, she would walk to the child's room to ask about their day at school. But now, when my husband comes home, he smokes and then goes to bed after watching TV and books. He hardly talks much all night.
After several questioning, the husband did not reveal his thoughts. Wen Xuan suspected that his husband was looking for another woman outside, so he didn't bother to talk to her. So, she decided to follow her husband from the morning until the evening, and she had a clear understanding of his whereabouts.
Although Wenxuan did not notice anything unusual, she still questioned her husband.
To Wenxuan's surprise, a week later, his husband actually "came back to life" again. He cared about his wife, children, and accompanied them to chat and play, just like before. At this moment, Wen Xuan realized that her husband had not changed and still deeply loved herself.
Later on, Wenxuan saw a marriage interview program on TV, and she suddenly realized it.
There is a song that sings: 'Don't guess a woman's thoughts.'. In fact, you shouldn't guess a man's thoughts. Sometimes the pressure of work and life makes him very upset, but he doesn't want to bring this kind of trouble to you, so he chooses to bear it on his own. At this point, you should give him some space of his own, let him breathe freely, let him quietly watch TV and read a book, all you need to do is quietly bring him a cup of hot water, or massage him from behind, that's enough.
So, for love in marriage, it's not that the closer you look at it, the closer the man next to you will lean towards you and learn to give each other some freedom. This way, your marriage will continue to be happier and more lasting.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)