Post Date December, 03 2023
Many people have mentioned how determined they are at the moment of ending a relationship and not wanting to turn back. But after taking a break, calming down, and experiencing a period of sedimentation, one can involuntarily recall the various beauties, people, or things of this relationship. Whether it was thoughtful or impulsive at the time.
If we want to continue our karma and save our ex boyfriend, many people will feel helpless. So what actions should be taken to save my ex boyfriend? Actually, there are still rules and regulations to find.
Changing a Style Externally
From a human perspective, the psychology of curiosity is universal. When two people are not too short together and are very familiar with each other, they may slightly overlook some external image embellishments. Taking advantage of this opportunity, we can make some changes in temperament.
As is well known, men like women's different decorative styles, and every change gives them a sense of novelty, which makes them want to be approachable. As the person who knows his ex boyfriend the most, he must know what type of person he likes, so that he can achieve targeted goals.
If you don't know how to modify it at the moment, you can refer to some pictures on the internet and design according to your own characteristics. Finally, find a suitable reason to arrange for a conversation, so that he can see such a significant change in himself and be attracted again.
Indulge oneself in the pursuit of capture
If it is not a matter of principle or if it severely hurts the other party's heart, a considerable portion of the reasons for breaking up are nothing more than self-esteem. Perhaps it's because of the constant arguments that make it difficult to lose face, or perhaps it's because something that happened at the moment is unacceptable.
However, after the silence, I began to miss this relationship, but I refused to extend an olive branch first. In fact, at this time, both subconscious minds were waiting for news from the other party. We can use the opportunity of communication to shine in front of our ex boyfriend's change of style and engage in conversation as an ordinary friend or old friend.
With the concept of 'not being a couple, you can also be friends', keep in touch with various social channels. If you have already deleted it, just add it again. Then in the circle, you can send some photos of yourself, such as fitness photos, reading photos, travel photos, etc., with the aim of sending a signal to your ex boyfriend: it is he who has made you grow and become more mature. Affected by this, in the future, you will continue to follow the temperament oriented path as usual.
For a woman with a rich temperament, which man can withstand it? Moreover, no man wants to become a rehearsal ground for her next boyfriend, right?
Be independent in your heart
After experiencing such baptism, we need to realize a problem: if we don't have enough capital and place all our hopes on another person, it's like a gamble, betting on our future, even if it's a boyfriend or even a future husband.
Imagine handing over everything of oneself to the other party. If he is a person who is wholeheartedly loyal to himself, then the harvest will be infinite happiness; However, if one is half hearted or only focuses on oneself, without taking care of their girlfriend or even their family, then the future will become very difficult. So, no matter what kind of encounter you encounter, you must have independent and powerful capital.
I believe some people will argue that men like to be worshipped and attached to their own women. If they remain independent, will they still reap happiness? The answer is yes, we can still rely on others and give our partners the sense of achievement they deserve, but inner independence does not necessarily have to be demonstrated. This is the most powerful barrier that cannot be lacking to calm down and maintain composure in the face of the worst possible situation.
