Post Date April, 15 2023
Whether in real life or in TV dramas, it is often the man who has extramarital affairs. Say a very popular saying: "Men become bad when they have money." This shows that when men succeed in their careers, their sexual psychology will also change. Women should learn more about men's psychology at this time to avoid affecting the lives of both sexes, thus endangering marriage.
First, curiosity
Curiosity is common to all people. In terms of sex, men have more exploratory spirit. If we only explore between husband and wife, it will add color to the legal sex life. However, some men with weak self-control will have extramarital sex under the attraction of such unknown mystery as "what is the wife like, what will other women like?". If he finds that having sex with other women is no different from having sex with his wife, or worse than his wife, and may cause some problems, he may stop. If the taste of "wild flowers" is really different, and he has certain economic ability or charm, then he may also be addicted to it.
Second, risk-taking psychology
The last two sentences in the so-called "wives are not as good as concubines, concubines are not as good as maidservants, and maidservants are not as good as thieves" are a reflection of risk-taking psychology. Generally, men are more adventurous than women. If they are used in the life of husband and wife, they may create some new patterns or arouse the interest for the life of husband and wife. But if it is used on other women, there will be problems. Some men encounter setbacks in the process of sexual adventure, such as sexual dysfunction, contracting or fear of sexually transmitted diseases, and may return to their families. Some men enjoy taking risks, which is dangerous. There are also some men who can only get sexual pleasure or super sexy feeling in sexual adventure, and he may make repeated mistakes.
Third, conquer psychology
Both men and women have the desire to conquer. When falling in love, a man catches up with a woman, or a woman puts a man under a pomegranate skirt, all belong to the satisfaction of conquering psychology. After marriage, some men will satisfy their conquest desire by conquering other women in order to show their ability, or to seek self-confidence, or because of their incessant lust.
Fourth, compensation psychology
The inducements for men to appear compensatory psychology are as follows: (1) The wife is unable to satisfy her husband due to sexual dysfunction, sexual psychological disorders, injuries and other reasons, or is unwilling to satisfy her husband due to wrong sexual concepts, and even uses sexual punishment as a means to solve the contradiction between husband and wife. (2) The wife is poor in figure and appearance, or old and discolored, or injured or disabled. (3) The wife is domineering and vicious, which seriously bruises her husband's self-esteem and easily leads her to be seduced by the warmth of the outside world, and then develops into sexual relations, even marriage. (4) The husband's sexual desire is too strong to satisfy his wife.
The reason why men like extramarital affairs can be basically attributed to the above eight reasons. I hope that the majority of women can understand this, learn more about the psychology of men who like extramarital affairs, and improve their emotional quality of life. Don't wait until extramarital affairs occur to focus on these things. At that time, it is too late to mend.
