Two months ago, I was pregnant, but he drank a lot during that time, so we planned to give up that child. Although I gave up on my own initiative, I was still very uncomfortable after the operation. After all, it was the crystallization of our love. But I didn't expect that greater harm would follow.
One day, I saw an ambiguous text message in his mobile phone, and made his call and text message records. A phone number repeated every day. I asked a friend - a woman named Lily, a wine lady who came to work in Jinan from other places.
I quarreled with him, but he refused to admit that those phone calls and text messages were all made by friends using his mobile phone to contact Lily.
Then I called Lily in front of him, and the woman said to me in a very arrogant way: "I just want your husband, what can you do?" Then she said to me shamelessly how good he is... I was so angry that he grabbed the phone and hung up, saying that the woman was intentional, and he didn't do anything at all. If I took it seriously, I would be a fool.
Because I am a little weak, the doctor specially ordered me to be accompanied every day, especially at night, within one week after the operation. Because the body is not very good, it may bleed heavily when sleeping at night. On the third night, when he didn't come home at midnight, I began to bleed more and more, and my clothes and bed sheets were wet... I called him, but he turned off the phone, so I had to simply tidy up and take a taxi to the hospital.
Later, I learned that that night, he and Lily opened a room in the hotel... In the early morning, he called me, then rushed to the hospital and apologized to me, saying that he was on business and not in Jinan. I knew he was lying, but I didn't say anything, and he wouldn't admit it.
I can accept him to make friends with the opposite sex, have confidants, recognize sisters and sisters, drink, sing and play cards. I can accept anything I do, but I can't accept him having sex with other women. Before getting married, he swore to me that he would never do anything wrong to me, but after less than two years of marriage, he
I did everything well, took good care of the elderly and children, and gave full support to his work. I save money for him and save money for him. His and his son's things are always the best, but he is not willing to buy more than 200 yuan of shoes... Why does he treat me like this?!
I asked for a divorce, but he didn't agree. He said he didn't do anything, and I was just worried... However, that Lily called me several times, and each time she irritated me with despicable words, such as "Your husband's skin is so smooth", "Do you see the kiss marks on his body? That's what I kissed", "You'd better leave him, I won't let him go"
I was very upset when I heard this, but he didn't think so. He also said that he had nothing to do with Lily. She was deliberately angry with me until she took me away... That time I quarreled with that Lily on the phone, and he fell asleep on the sofa next to me!
I can't stand it. The psychological pressure directly led to my physical reaction. Now, as soon as he touches me, I feel sick. Really, I feel sick when I think of him with other women. Sometimes I can vomit in the dark.
I paid too much for this family, but now I know I can't bear it anymore. I think it's time to fight for myself.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)