Post Date December, 03 2023
British women can determine whether the man in front of them is the prince charming of their dreams within one minute, all of which are determined by looking at the shoes on men's feet.
Psychological basis for identifying men through shoes
Shoes symbolize marriage and career
Deng Yuntian, a psychologist at Chongqing Bright Psychological Counseling Institute, said that shoes and the habit of wearing shoes can express a man's personality, and their symbolic significance not only involves the shoes themselves, but also the act of buying shoes. For example, in terms of behavior, people who regularly purchase the same style of shoes often have a more nostalgic and stable personality. From the perspective of shoes, they symbolize marriage more for men, especially the degree of marital stability. There is an old saying that goes, "Marriage is like a pair of shoes, whether it's suitable or not, you need to wear it before you know", which vividly illustrates this point.
In addition, Deng Yuntian also pointed out that sometimes because shoes are worn on the feet and used for walking, they can represent continuous progress and symbolize a man's career. There was once a person who came for psychological therapy who dreamed of high heels and low heels. Later, after analysis, it was found that his career had problems. Of course, this varies from person to person, as individual experiences lead to different answers.
The famous body language expert, Frick Everett, classifies men's personalities into five types according to their shoes wearing habits:
Men who wear frugal shoes are very conservative
After buying a pair of shoes, he cherishes them very much, hoping that they can wear longer and save a budget for clothing. And the shoes in his shoe cabinet are all very old. In terms of personality, he is a reserved and unrestrained conservative man. In dealing with people and things, one is not smooth enough and often offends others without realizing it; In interpersonal relationships, the pattern of interaction is relatively small; In the professional field, he will have a chance of success due to his silent efforts. Therefore, if you fall in love with him, be careful! He is a man with a 'passionate heart'. On the first date, I had endless fantasies about you in my heart, hoping to become a lover with you as soon as possible, and to strike it off instantly and be intimate. But his reserved and reserved personality also suppresses his inner self, afraid to confess to you. So you might as well take the initiative and create more opportunities for him to confess.
Men who love to wear casual shoes value taste
This type of man is a man who values leisure life and lifestyle taste. There is a high demand for shoes, not only to be comfortable, but also to pay more attention to the style of the shoes, and also to match suitable clothing. In terms of personality, he likes to take the initiative, has a strong subjective consciousness, is very strict with his own requirements, and is even more picky about the requirements of the opposite sex. In life, I am a regular planner. When dating him, you can feel that he is a very considerate and good lover, with a gentle and polite attitude, witty and humorous conversation, and he is also a person who knows very well what kind of girl he likes. So when dating him, even if you don't meet his ideal, he will still be very kind. Don't think he has a good impression of you, he just has a gentlemanly demeanor.
Men who repeatedly purchase fixed style shoes are very nostalgic
This type of man is a nostalgic man. There is always a deep attachment to the people, things, and things he is accustomed to. Even if his lover is unreasonable, capricious, or childish, he will treat her with a tolerant attitude until she gradually matures and becomes rational. He has many old friends and is very loyal to them. He will stand out for his friends and lend a helping hand in a timely manner, making them feel that he is a trustworthy support. Therefore, if you fall in love with him, you may as well listen to his troubles more, pay more attention to the details of his life, and have a stable and growing emotional relationship with each other.
Men who love to wear orthodox black leather shoes are mostly chauvinistic
This type of man is accustomed to wearing orthodox black leather shoes and polishing them shiny, and can never tolerate wearing dirty or old shoes when going out. If this type of man is accustomed to wearing his orthodox black leather shoes even on vacation or dates, you need to be mentally prepared. He definitely has a strong male chauvinism tendency and values his mother's opinions very much. If you fall in love with him, don't try to influence his thoughts. He has his own set of principles for dealing with people and will never change them because of you.
Men who casually wear shoes are not limited to small details, with high eyes and low hands
This type of man doesn't care what shoes he wears and wears them indiscriminately. Sometimes the shoes and clothes don't match at all, even if the shoes are already worn out and the style is outdated, he doesn't mind. He can even tolerate not wearing socks, worn socks, or wearing them incorrectly. In terms of personality, he is a man who doesn't stick to small details and often has high ambitions but low abilities. My personal life is disorganized and I enjoy daydreaming. I believe that one day I can soar to the sky and easily lead a life of self deception. If you fall in love with him, you will find that his emotional world is chaotic and complex, often unable to forget old love and refuse new love. Triangle love and quadrangle love are intertwined, and when all disputes ignite, he will choose to "escape".
You can't just 'judge people with shoes'
Sun Yuxiao, a psychological expert at the Beijing Psychological Counseling Center, said that wearing shoes can indicate a person's living conditions, identity, and personality. Shoes still play a certain role in expressing a person's life, mental outlook, and personality. Of course, the specific situation of each person is different, and shoes must not be rigidly linked to people's personalities. It is necessary to analyze specific problems.
