Post Date April, 15 2023
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Good face in front of outsiders
Couples are inevitably bumpy in life, but be careful not to argue in public. Some issues that cannot be resolved by arguing in front of others can only fuel the flames. "Both sides need to save face and argue in front of everyone, which is definitely not willing to show weakness, often leading to a difficult situation in the end.".
Therefore, good couples should remember to save face for their loved ones in front of friends and family. Your attitude towards your lover determines the degree of respect others have for him or her. If you don't care about him (her), others will look down on him (her). As the saying goes, "One clap cannot make a sound.". Acknowledge each other's mistakes and forgive each other.
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Fighting in front of children
Avoid children when quarrelling, they are innocent. Husband and wife quarrel is a matter of two people. Letting children see their parents arguing can leave a shadow in their young hearts, and can affect their attitudes towards marriage even when they grow up.
The relationship between parents is the place where children feel secure and cannot be replaced by any material life. If children cannot enjoy the atmosphere and feeling of love at home, their parents' behavior unknowingly harms the next generation.
Parents often say these things in front of their children:
Parents should even lead by example!
Therefore, good couples should set an example for their children.
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Burning abuse when the other person is sick
Arguments also have a certain timeliness. "If the other person is sick, if the other person is feeling down, if the other person is in a difficult situation at work, and if they argue in these circumstances, it will only deepen the conflict between the husband and wife.".
Therefore, good couples love each other by loving themselves.
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Turn over the old accounts of the other party
Some couples like to dig into each other's old accounts when arguing, such as past mistakes made by the other party or previous lovers of the other party, which can increase the intensity of the quarrel and lead to deeper and deeper conflicts. This is also the most foolish behavior of a husband and wife quarrel. "A yard is a yard, and one cannot shake out all the stale sesame seeds and millet in a quarrel.". It was originally a small matter, but the result became more and more complicated.
So, let bygones be history, don't mention them again. Good couples need to learn tolerance, love, consideration, and compromise.
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When arguing, it affects the other party's parents and family members
When a husband and wife quarrel, do not involve the other party's parents and family. A quarrel should not abuse each other, let alone involve the elderly on both sides. Abusing the other party's family is the most serious, and it is absolutely necessary to quit. Respect your spouse's family, put your heart to heart, respect both parents equally, and love the love I love. "If you sincerely treat each other's loved ones, they will appreciate you from the bottom of their hearts and love you even more.".
Therefore, it is common for couples to quarrel. Don't take it too seriously, and don't let your parents know. Communicate and understand more. The days are still long, and when you are angry, think about the other person's good intentions.
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Smashing things during a fight
When quarreling, don't smash things randomly. The noise of the quarrel is high, coupled with the cracking sound of utensils, which is too dramatic, and can disturb neighbors and scare children. What's more, it's all my own money that I broke. I have to clean up the mess on my own. If I have a reason to be quiet, I need to be polite when arguing. "I can't help but throw the pillow, don't let the two loving hearts crumble in the harsh crash.".
Therefore, marital anger is a double-edged sword. Why do good couples have to compete for high and low positions? Take a step back and open the sky.
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Say something that hurts the other person
When quarreling, they often choose their words freely, and often compare their wives/husbands with others. You can see how capable their husbands are. What a loser you are! Look at how virtuous their wives are, and you can't do anything! These words only destroy the confidence of the other party.
So, good husband and wife, refuse to hurt!
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Threaten with death
Some couples quarrel and often say "die". "What else does it mean to be alive?", "I don't want to be alive anymore!", "I'll show you when I die!" Wait, threaten the other person with "death.". This is very foolish.
Therefore, good couples should not say such angry words.
Couple fights are also extremely rhythmic
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Burn Beat
When quarreling, you must take good care of your own hands, and even in anger, you must have the minimum control. A slap in the face may destroy years of kindness and bring about unbearable feelings on both sides. Hands touch the skin and flesh, but they hurt the soul. Skin and flesh wounds are easy to heal, but the cracks in the heart are difficult to repair.
Therefore, good couples should remember that impulse is the devil!
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Divorce lightly
It's not easy for two people to come together and form a family. Don't say the word "divorce" easily. Especially when talking about divorce during an argument, it is inevitable to make the wrong choice due to impulse and make yourself regret it for a lifetime. "Divorce" is a very sensitive word, and it is dangerous to casually refer to these words, which can easily tear apart the emotional bonds between couples.
So lucky people have the lowest divorce rate!
We believe that the purpose of marriage is to "marry with two surnames", and if divorced, it is "marry with two surnames". In areas with strong family values, it is very undesirable to have two surnames or two family feuds. Therefore, when there is a crisis in the family relationship, both the husband's and the mother's families will try their best to persuade both parties to make a good deal and to value peace.
