Changes in the natural climate restrict people's sexual desire. For example, in spring, it is easy to arouse people's sexual impulse. In summer, people always feel like "burning with desire", and in winter, they enter a "dormant period" of sexual desire. What about autumn? Some people believe that autumn is the best season for sexual life, but traditional Chinese medicine points out that autumn should curb sexual desire, accumulate essence in the body, and focus on recuperation.
Why should I have sex in the late autumn?
From the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, the frequency of sexual activity in autumn should be reduced. It is not as vigorous and vigorous as in spring, not as hot and hot as in summer, or as cold as in winter. It can be said that autumn is a transitional period, allowing people's sexual desire to turn from high to low, providing a buffer for overworked bodies in spring and summer, and allowing them to enter a dormant stage in sequence. Just like track and field athletes, after a fierce sprint, they need to adjust their bodies with soothing movements and slowly enter a resting state.
On the other hand, people with insufficient Yang Qi can use the nature of spring and summer days to warm and maintain Yang Qi, while those with insufficient Yin Essence can use the nature of autumn and winter collections to conserve Yin Essence. Therefore, although the concept of maintaining Yin Essence is emphasized as the key to maintaining life in winter, in fact, autumn has begun to prepare for the severe cold of winter.
Women's libido decreases in the autumn
The biggest characteristic of autumn in the north is the dry and restless weather and the huge temperature difference between day and night. In this case, women generally experience decreased libido and abnormalities in the physiological system, such as insufficient secretion of sexual fluids, vaginal dryness, and so on. Due to the dryness and astringency of qi, it is easy to injure the body, so there is a saying that "dryness prevails and dryness prevails.". During the autumn season, vaginal dryness not only affects the mood and joy of intercourse, but also can bring pain and damage caused by friction between the penis and vagina.
Some people also say that autumn is the estrous period for men, when the sperm is in the mature stage and men's sexual desire is quite high. This situation also exists, but from the perspective of health preservation and sexual harmony, men should reasonably control and take care of women's feelings. Experts have suggested that having sex in autumn should be premised on arousing women's sexual desire. Men must increase the time and quality of foreplay. If women secrete too little love fluid, they must use lubricants to promote lubrication. Sexual life should also be gentle and slow, and after the end of the play, it is necessary to promote each other's feelings and avoid emotional depression.