Post Date December, 03 2023
Speaking of breaking up, we need art. Because if you break up too much, you will hurt the self-esteem of the other party, and if you hurt the self-esteem of the other party, it will not do you any good. If it is too straightforward, the other party may not accept it at once. Therefore, how to break up requires you to think clearly what to say. So how can we say it is better to break up?
First, learn to give the other party time to relax
If you want to break up with the other party, it is difficult to know that the other party's feelings will cool down at once. So you need to cool down slowly. You can give the other party some emotional bedding, try to ask the other party, if one day you break up, what the other party will do and what the other party will think, let the other party imagine, and you are not completely sure. Give the other party a little worry. Let the other party have a psychological awareness in advance. When the other party realizes that there may be a problem between you, the other party will start to think about it. The more time you give each other, the stronger their ability to accept this matter in the future.
Second, learn to keep quiet and silent
When you are with each other, you should learn to keep quiet and silent. When the other party feels that being with you is not as interesting as before, the other party also begins to feel doubtful about your attitude or whether you are suitable for each other. Many times, it is not people who change, but our attitude towards things will also change. Sometimes silence and quiet make people feel more uneasy. How much love is from having nothing to say without talking to having nothing to say to the natural breakup and farewell. It is not love or not love, but can not feel love or love for each other.
Third, learn to be frank with people you don't love
You and the other party used to be lovers. Even if they broke up, they were not enemies. So don't always say all the hurtful words. Instead, learn to be frank with this matter. No matter what the other party says, it will not arouse your enthusiasm. That is because you have put away your love for the other party, leaving only goodwill and final tenderness. If the other party understands, it will know that it is better to quit than to stick to it. Because quitting at least knows that you don't love, and sticking is just counting down how long it will take.
Finally, let the other party know that you don't have to wait for someone you don't love
Let the other party know that the other party's life is broad and there are infinite possibilities in the future. Let the other party know that there are many pursuits in their life. In fact, they can live a good life without you. Don't feel regret for the so-called love you think, because until the end, no one knows what is regret and what is true in this life.
The words of breaking up need to be tactful. The reason for this is that you have to consider for the other party. Feelings are not meant to be put down, and for a persistent person, he is willing to have the only feeling in his life, because he knows that he must stick to it, which seems to be worthy of life. The reason for this is that he narrows his understanding. Or, what he saw was really the true love he wanted to find all his life, but how many true love were betrayed by time. I hope that time will make everyone understand that when it is gone, don't pester, let go.
