Post Date December, 02 2023
"If you are beautiful and rugged, that is the Queen;"; "You look ugly, you're a rough, proper woman.". Boys are more tragic, with a high face value. Dyeing their hair is called "fantasy" or "personality"; With a low face value, if you want to be "unique", you immediately transform into a murderer.
In this face watching world, the truth is so cruel. But there are exceptions to this matter. Recently, among the male gods in the entertainment industry, several men with slightly lower facial values have emerged, but they have washed away the beauty of young girls' mate selection. They have successfully infiltrated the male gods' world with a unique set of killing skills. What is this must kill skill?
"Ma Dong praised Jia Ling in a program and said, 'Jia Linger has lost weight. The photos of Jia Ling's previous ID cards were taken by air, otherwise they wouldn't be complete.'"
@Netizen: There is a man at the table next to dinner tonight who is talking to the girl opposite about the history of the late Qing Dynasty. Is this considered a play of literature and art? After talking about Li Hongzhang's life for half an evening, until she mentioned that Li Zhongtang had been granted the peerage, the girl raised her head and asked the man, "Do you know what kind of peerage he was granted?"? The man was stunned, and the girl continued, "Wait for Marquis Su Yi, my recent paper is related to the history of the late Qing Dynasty.".
@Gao Xiaosong: Hahaha, how can I tell you the history of the Qing Dynasty?! Talk about love history! Love history is a hundred times more effective than Qing history! Speaking to the depths of love, I sighed: "I thought I would never love again, but there are no eggs..."
As Ma Dong said, can you imagine who a humorous person is? "It's the kind that makes you feel close and smile at each other, the kind that a girl would marry him.". Because I think when a girl wants to choose a man to marry, please put the sense of humor in the most important measurement position.
The magic of humor
1. Humor can enhance charm
Humor and wit can reveal one's vitality. Because people with a sense of humor are better at communicating with others, even expressing objections is not offensive; With a sense of humor, they will always be the protagonists of the party, and everyone is willing to chat with them for a few words; Because of their sense of humor, they always laugh at themselves in awkward moments, even when wrestling in public, they can resolve it with a smile
Humor not only brings joy and eliminates hostility, but also helps people improve their interpersonal skills and achieve more interpersonal harmony.
Dr. Brandy, American psychologist? Engler said that emotions are easily contagious and resonate, and being with people with high enthusiasm for life can create a strong sense of self existence.
2. Humor can enhance memory
Researchers at the University of Loma Linda in Southern California have found that humor can improve short-term memory in elderly people. Researchers believe that the less stress people experience, the better their memory. Humor can reduce the content of stress hormones, lower blood pressure, and improve emotional status.
Smiling regularly and enjoying humor can increase the level of endorphins in the brain, sending dopamine to the brain that makes people feel happy and rewarding. This effect will make the immune system work better, changing the brain wave pairs γ The activity of frequency, thereby enhancing memory and recall ability.
3. Humor can improve immunity
With the deepening of psychological medicine theory and clinical experiments, more and more psychologists in the United States believe that humor is an important way to relieve their psychological stress.
Burke and Stanley, two immunologists at the University of Lomalinda School of Medicine in the United States, have found that when people laugh, they can promote the movement of beneficial cells in the body, thereby resisting the phenomenon of immune decline caused by stress. Studies by other medical experts have also basically confirmed the above conclusions.
4. Humor can help people deal with stress
Studies have shown that people with a sense of humor have a higher subjective well-being, so Westerners advocate humor in order to live a more natural and joyful life.
According to an article from the US Health Guide Network, humor can alleviate tension, improve insomnia, and reduce pain. Moreover, humorous people tend to have a longer vision and are more likely to succeed.
5. Humor can enhance creativity
A large number of studies have shown that creativity and humor complement each other, and most Western psychologists regard humor as the core feature of creativity. American psychologist Robert? Olson pointed out, "If we have a humorous attitude, it can stimulate innovation."
Psychological research has also shown that humor can enhance artistic and scientific creativity, and the improvement of scientific creativity can further increase people's humorous ability. At the same time, humor can improve productivity.
According to a survey conducted by a company in Colorado, the production of middle level executives who have participated in humor training has increased by 15% in nine months, while the number of sick days has been reduced by half.
6. Parental humor can improve children's learning efficiency
Humor is not only beneficial to physical and mental health, but also helps to improve academic performance. A new French study has found that making young children laugh through funny and humorous actions can help children learn new things faster.
Researchers have analyzed that children who love to laugh have relatively strong social skills or cognitive abilities, and are therefore more likely to imitate others' behavior.
There is also a theory that positive emotions such as laughter and good cooperation with participants can both increase the level of dopamine, the brain's euphoric substance, and have a positive effect on learning. For parents, a sense of humor can make parent-child relationships more harmonious, and also make children's psychological growth healthier.
7. Humor can prolong one's life
A study published by the Norwegian University of Science and Technology shows that people with a sense of humor are 30% more likely to be cured or improved when suffering from major diseases than others.
These occasions require humor even more
A sense of humor is so important that in today's society, there are three places where humor is more needed - the classroom, the ward, and the cell.
According to data, students are currently one of the most stressed groups, with 90% of college students experiencing more or less psychological stress, and 18.3% of children aged six or seven have significant psychological problems. Cultivating a child's sense of humor from an early age can help them learn to view conflicts from a more optimistic perspective and resolve the pressure in their hearts.
Psychological research has proven that laughter is important for people's physical health and is an emotional release. If you play jokes and tell jokes with people in the ward more often, the patient will become relaxed and conducive to the harmony of the doctor-patient relationship.
Adding humor to a prison cell can help inmates improve their mentality and actively accept reform, reducing their resistance to society.
Humor can be trained day after day
Humor can bring so many benefits to people, so how can we improve our sense of humor? In fact, a sense of humor can be acquired through learning the day after tomorrow. At the same time, through continuous training, we can also tap into more potential humor. Here are some ways to improve your sense of humor:
1. Understand the true meaning of humor
Humor is not a glib tone, nor is it a mockery of irony. You can first learn to point out the shortcomings or advantages of others with tact and agility, and confirm or deny them with a smile. Remember: Only when you are calm, equal to others, detached, skillful, and intelligent can you be humorous.
2. Expand knowledge
Humor is based on rich knowledge, which is the only way to achieve rich conversation and witty words.
3. An optimistic and upward attitude towards life
Be optimistic about reality and cultivate a tolerant attitude. Humor, tolerance, and optimism are close friends.
4. Cultivate deep insight and agile thinking
Only by quickly capturing the essence of things and expressing them in witty language in a timely manner can people easily feel relaxed.
5. More self justification, changing from passive to active
In daily life, we often encounter things that make people more passive. You don't have to shut up and answer, nor do you have to force yourself. "If a young woman asked Darwin, 'You bet that humans were transformed from monkeys, so am I?' Darwin replied, 'You were transformed from very attractive monkeys.'"
6. Learn to laugh at yourself and turn your troubles into laughingstock
Edison had his ear broken by a train attendant. When someone asked him about his experience, Edison said, "I want to thank him. In this noisy world, I don't have to plug my ears to do experiments."
Edison's self-deprecating view of deafness not only makes you happy, but also makes others feel that you can see setbacks head-on.
7. To simplify complicated matters, turn complexity into straightforwardness
People don't like to listen to overly complicated sermons, which can cause others' disgust. Einstein explained the complex theory of relativity in a metaphorical way. We might as well learn from this expression to make ourselves more humorous.
8. Using multiple puns to change one meaning into multiple meanings
Someone asked Christie, a famous British detective novelist, why did she marry an archaeologist? She said, "Because the older his wife gets, the more he cherishes her."
In daily life, our expressions do not necessarily have to be straightforward. Learning to pun like this woman can leave a lasting pleasure and charm.
9. Look at both sides of the situation and change one dimension into multiple dimensions
Socrates' marriage was unfortunate, but he said, "A wife like this can exercise my endurance." Look at things from a positive perspective and let others feel your humor.
What kind of people are most popular around you? The answer for many people will be: someone with a sense of humor. Humor can make you the most popular male god in this face watching world even if you don't have a high face value.
