Is there any way to continue this marriage when his wife sleeps with someone and he gets green

Q:

I encountered something that all men couldn't bear. My wife turned me green.

My wife and I have been married for ten years, and my son is eight years old this year. Wife is widely recognized as a virtuous wife and good mother, with a gentle demeanor and a soft and gentle voice when speaking. Who could have imagined that she would also cheat like this!

I saw the news when I accidentally picked up her phone, and she admitted that she had been dating that man for over half a month. However, she swore that she had only slept once, and she said she felt guilty after that time. She just went shopping with him and swore that she had never opened a house again until I discovered it. She said she didn't have any emotions, just felt that there was no pressure to be with that man, and there was pressure to be with me.

She always secretly cries when I look sad and sad. It seems that she is indeed very guilty. She wants me to give her a chance and promises she won't do it again, and she still loves me, but I don't know if I can trust a woman who has already cheated.

During that time, I didn't really care about her. I was a male chauvinist, and I always talked to her loudly and didn't spend much time with her. I am all alone outside playing with my friends. Whenever a woman takes the initiative to throw herself in my arms, I think of my son and my family, and I endure it. This is the place where I cannot forgive her the most. As a man, I can withstand temptation, but why can't a woman?

For the sake of her reputation, I dare not complain to the people around me. I don't know if time can pass the trauma in my heart. She promised me that she would never cheat again in her life. Can I trust her?

Answer:

Carefully consider the reason for her infidelity, you feel too much pressure on her. So now that I don't trust her to repent, is another pressure being exerted on her? With such a vicious cycle, it may be painful for both parties to continue your marriage.

Respect and trust, combined with common growth, are necessary conditions for a long-term marriage. If you choose to forgive her and continue living with her, then use your love and trust, respect and guidance, and your mutual growth to reunite you again.

Perhaps one day you will realize that only when you two are together is the least stressful time, because you understand everything about her before and now, she understands everything about you before and now, and many of the most important memories of life are spent with you. Helping her realize this is also your responsibility as a man and husband. Male chauvinism is not entirely a negative definition, it can protect a little woman and make her feel at ease, and it is also a manifestation of male chauvinism.