My husband is a very picky person about the details of life, and at home, he has to classify everything he cooks in any pot; Anyone who arrives at home must immediately change their slippers and place them in a certain position, without any difference; The bathroom must be very clean, and there must be no water on the tile floor; The room should be spotless, and the sheets and covers must be washed every few days; And there are no flowers and plants allowed on the balcony. He said there would be many bacteria
From my heart, I don't like such a man. Sometimes watching him do housework so vigorously, I really have an unspeakable dislike. "Other people's husbands are all working outside, while my husband is still working so happily at home, so I often lose my temper with him.". Several times, I asked him to see a doctor, and he said I had nothing to do with it. But every time I go home, I always feel a sense of depression and fear. I want to divorce him. Is my husband sick?
Your husband may have some kind of illness, which you need not doubt. From the perspective of every normal person, his various behaviors are abnormal. "I've been hearing housewives complain that their husbands don't like cleaning, but if they really want their husbands to become your husband's type, I'm afraid 100 out of 100 women won't agree.". Because in women's minds, men are the ones who achieve great things. A man who values his career and doesn't care about small things not only makes people feel promising, but also can bring women many other aspects of help. Because women are born to be more modest than men, to put it popularly, gender balance is the only way to be happy. "Your imbalance is due to what your husband has brought to you, so you feel uncomfortable and have a sense of fear.".
Of course, many people will say that no one is perfect, and as long as everyone corrects their shortcomings, everything can be restarted. But there is also an old saying that "rivers and mountains are easy to change, but nature is hard to change.". If you want to save this family, create a warm atmosphere in the family, and give your children a normal growth environment, please try to communicate with your husband many times and boldly put forward your views. If he is still stubborn and feels that you are "looking for trouble", you can consider whether to live with him again. After all, living with a sick person is not fun, and it's not good for your health.