Post Date December, 03 2023
Is sexual infidelity psychologically unhealthy? Sexual infidelity is frequently performed in life, which has a great impact on marriage life, and also causes physical and mental torture to the parties. Now let's understand the major psychological factors of sexual infidelity. I hope you can pay attention to the regulation of sexual psychological health.
1、 Better to perfect yourself than to think nonsense
Women's meticulous, careful and sensitive make them more advantageous than men in some aspects. But on the other hand, women also have shortcomings such as narrow-minded, paranoid, paranoid, perfectionism, and emotional fragility. In our psychological counseling clinic, we often encounter such examples:
Case: Ronger accidentally found a diary of her husband's past when she moved house and learned about some things between her husband and his lover. From then on, she interrogated her husband every day about what was going on. She also read the diary several times and remembered it. Wherever she went, she would recall whether her husband had been here with others in the past, what she had done, and so on. This made her very painful. She couldn't sleep all night and didn't have the heart to work during the day. Their children are in primary school. Ronger doesn't want to divorce her husband, but she can't forgive her husband. So she tortured each other and made her husband very painful.
Analysis: Although many women do not have such extreme behaviors as the above, they are still prone to doubt the loyalty of their husbands or boyfriends and spend a lot of energy on daydreams. They not only lack trust in each other, but also lack self-confidence. I often ask them how much time we spend to really think about our life, work and entertainment because of the limited time in our lives. Is it worth spending so much time thinking about irrelevant people and things? Some people will suddenly realize that they should think more about their own growth. Instead of looking at their husbands like thieves and torturing themselves into mental distress and haggard appearance, they should pay more attention to improving their own quality, Perfect yourself.
2、 Can't give without yourself
Half of a person's character is due to heredity, and the other half is due to the influence of the environment and education after birth. When women grow up, their parents will unconsciously give them too much protection. It seems that girls should be more delicate than boys, and men should help women. As a result, women are more dependent than men.
After marriage, many women focus on their husbands and children. They feel that it is enough to have a husband struggling outside. If a husband values his wife's honor, they will not seek to improve themselves and gradually alienate from the outside world. When her husband's career develops and her children grow up, she becomes redundant, unattractive in the eyes of others, and she also feels very inferiority complex.
Although there are many factors that lead to sexual infidelity, psychological factors cannot be ignored. When sexual infidelity is not handled properly, it will also directly affect the smooth marriage. So I hope that both men and women in marriage can pay attention to keeping themselves clean and stay away from sexual infidelity.
