Post Date April, 15 2023
I am 28 years old and unmarried, and I have reached the point where it is difficult to get married. Recently, through a colleague's introduction, I met a handsome, articulate man, aged 30, unmarried. According to his own account, he has been in love for "10 years", and more than 30 women have "dated" him, but he is still "Wang Laowu". He always fantasies about having a more affordable and high-quality woman marry him. However, after discussing one after another, it was difficult to achieve the desired outcome.
I had only known him for a few days, and he told me the truth about his love experience. I'm worried. Could he be a "playboy radish"? "I dare not make deep acquaintance with him, for fear that he will shake me off in the future;"; "If I don't socialize with him, I'm afraid I'll miss a chance. Maybe I'll be his" last "candidate.". Excuse me, what should I do?
Miss Aiqin:
Whether a man is flirtatious or not depends not on how many times he has been in love, but rather on his attitude towards love. "If he takes a serious attitude towards love and finds it difficult to continue to associate with each other and become a family member in the future, so he resolutely jumps out of love and seeks another partner, this cannot be considered a flirtation.". If his attitude towards love is reckless, playing with the opposite sex in the name of love, and playing games with life, it is a matter of moral character, which can be described as a "playboy". "The philandering man" looks for a target, like a bear breaking corn and getting out of the crop field, must have achieved nothing.
In life, no one can tell exactly how many times a person truly loves. Some people never find true love in their lifetime, while others have the opportunity to experience love two or three times or even multiple times in their lifetime. As long as this kind of love is not "triangle love" or "multi angle love", is not a game of life, belittles the other party, does not cause harm to the other party, does not leave any future problems, it is beyond reproach. Therefore, people who fall in love many times should not be regarded as "a big turnip with a big heart.". Marriage is a matter of one's life. Who wants to find a suitable partner to marry? Maybe that man has been dumped by a woman before.
It is recommended that you first get to know him and after spending some time together, take a look at how he behaves in life, and gain a deeper understanding of his attitude towards love and marriage, as well as his interests, temperament, lifestyle, and sense of responsibility. If you don't dislike him and are willing to continue developing relationships with him, then you should boldly accept him and seize a chance bravely. Of course, if you discover that he is not suitable for you, or even hurts you, you have the full right to refuse him. The basis for rejecting him can only be your true understanding of him, not his past love experience.
