Post Date December, 03 2023
Keyword: Women Forgive Men Repeatedly
Netizen: Why do girls always forgive boys repeatedly?
I don't know why, I can always easily forgive my boyfriend for doing something wrong. "I feel that doing so is despicable, but I can't control myself. Why do girls always forgive boys, while boys do the opposite?"?
Panda: This is not a general phenomenon, but an individual case. Forgive repeatedly, there will always be a degree, there will always be a moment of collapse. Can only say some possibilities!
1. The girl is likely to particularly like this boy and lose her due sense. (I like it to the end, but I don't know where I like it.)
2. Girls have unrealistic fantasies about their relationships, or they invest too much in the early stages and are unwilling to stop losses.
3. Girls have other demands for boys besides love, which have not yet been satisfied.
4. Boys' mistakes did not touch the bottom line of their emotions, and they promptly acknowledged their mistakes.
5. Boys are also suffering from this and are working hard to correct their own problems, which will take some time.
Key point: Any love has a bottom line, and the biggest bottom line is the cost of life!!
Keyword: getting cold after catching your hand
Netizen: Why does a man change after he catches a woman?
Why do some men keep chasing girls, but when they catch them, they become cold again?
Panda: Actually, both of them have changed their requirements for each other. Men feel like they are their own, so they don't have to pretend to be okay, just be natural; "A woman feels like she's her own person, and she needs to be better to herself, otherwise she agrees in vain.". Therefore, when one moves upward and the other moves downward, the psychological gap naturally increases.
The key point: No one can always maintain a "high energy state", and love is a state of chasing each other
Key words: Where is the happiness of divorced women?
Netizen: Why is it difficult for divorced women to find a good home again?
When it comes to divorce, most people would advise women to "put up with it more, it's difficult to find a better one after divorce." Is this true? Why is that?
Panda: I have consulted with some divorced women and they are difficult to find a good home for three reasons:
1. The impact of being injured in a relationship is still there. Although the apparent conditions for choosing a spouse after divorce have decreased, psychological standards have increased. In particular, some people hope that the next husband will be stronger than the previous one and make up for the trauma of their hearts.
2. Some people bring children with them and are not easy to integrate into a new family. If a new partner also has a child at home, it is not easy to get along with two children, a new father and a new mother.
3. After a divorce, if you don't get out completely and quickly enter a new marriage, you may find yourself dissatisfied at this time. Considering age and children, some people choose to make do with it and tolerate it, which can lead to a decline in happiness.
Therefore, before entering the next relationship, it is crucial to first see where you want to grow in the previous relationship.
The key point: The problem of love is not a problem of the object, but a problem of ability.
