Post Date December, 03 2023
Hello, I am a divorced man, and my wife is also a second marriage. She has a son and a daughter, and she works in accounting at the company.
Recently, I have encountered a problem. In the past, when she worked at her original company, I found that she always had injuries to her back or chest, just like something similar to scratches, which caused scratches. I asked her how she did it, but she didn't say anything. This has aroused my suspicion. In fact, in my daily life, I really haven't found any signs of cheating on her. I also wondered if she might have been subject to hidden rules at work. Do you think there might be such a possibility?
Later, she was transferred to another unit where she also worked as a financial worker, but now she can still find some obvious scars on her back, just like being scratched. As soon as I asked her, she said she didn't know what was wrong. I used to ask her, she said this, but now when I ask her, she still says this, I feel like she doesn't tell me the truth at all. I always feel like there's something going on here, so I don't know if I should continue to live with her now? I am very suspicious that he may have cheated. What should I do?
reply:
1. It goes without saying that there must be something wrong with your wife's repeated and regular occurrence of this situation. The scratches on your wife's body have already appeared in sensitive parts of the body, and even a fool can think of how they left them.
2. In this situation, either your wife is cheating or she is being abused. She repeatedly conceals and does not say it. It can be seen that either she has no face to say it, or she is afraid to say it. She has always done something that may be unseemly.
3. Personally, it's unlikely that your wife will be caught by someone else's hidden rules, because according to what you said, she has already changed her job once, and still does, which is not likely to be persecuted in the workplace. If you want to find out, you still need to carefully observe and obtain evidence to prove it.
4. So far, in fact, you have a clear understanding of what your wife has done outside, but you just don't want to even dare to face it. Men are face-loving animals and cannot tolerate being cuckolded by their daughter-in-law. Therefore, the idea of breaking up with their wives has already sprouted in their hearts before the truth comes to light. This is where men are vulnerable. To do this, you need to calm down and take a good look at your marriage itself to see what the problem is? "If your wife just can't be honest with you, can't tell the truth with you, or lives apart from you, then it's really meaningless to go on like this.".
Marriage, whether it's a first marriage or a second marriage, requires being honest with each other, respecting each other, and paying sincerely. Otherwise, living together with a mask and a mindset of taking, taking, and even using each other's resources can be painful. Think carefully. Regarding your wife's behavior, do you want to continue with him, listen to your true heart, and ask your bottom line. If you can accept, continue, or if you can't accept, choose to give up. The answer is sometimes as simple as this. The key is to take that step with enough courage and determination.
