Nowadays, it is very common in society to betray families and cheat due to the temptation of both genders. Some even argue that they are just mentally deviant and there is no betrayal. This is wrong because mental infidelity can also cause harm to marriage and family. Below, the editor will tell you about the manifestations of mental infidelity.
I often make excuses not to go home, but I would rather be alone at home
The spouse who experiences mental infidelity may find it boring to go home and often find excuses not to go home. Even if they do, they would rather be alone. If the other party is used to watching TV after dinner, then they will play with the computer or find an excuse to do something else. Even if they are idle and bored, they do not want to have fun with the other party. Some couples encounter this situation and think that the unevenness of their marriage is inevitable, but in fact, this unevenness hides a profound crisis.
Inexplicably bored, refusing people thousands of miles away
The party who has a mental infidelity will have someone in their heart who is empathizing with someone else. Their attention is often focused on other people, and they may find their marital life boring or uninteresting. They may also feel that their current partner is just a burden and unnecessary. So, when the other party has something to ask, or when the other party wants to take the initiative to get intimate, they often face rejection.
Compare the other person to others and see that nothing is good about them
In marriage, when looking at the other person, everything is not good, even if it's a small matter, one should blame the other person and deliberately criticize them. Even if the other person deliberately behaves, they always cannot follow his or her wishes. They always compare the other person to others openly and secretly, and the more they compare, the less interesting they become.
Not willing to appease the other party, ignoring them when they are in a hurry
I am very unwilling to compromise with the other party. Once the situation becomes urgent, even if the other party cries due to grievances, he/she is too lazy to compromise. Instead, he/she sets the other party aside and goes to work on his/her own, or to find entertainment on his/her own. In daily life, the attitude is neither cold nor warm, and there are very few times when one actively gets intimate with the other party. Often, after an argument, one is easily trapped in a prolonged cold war.
Actually, both men and women have the phenomenon of cheating. Many times, they complain because one party doesn't cherish or lacks freshness, which are all excuses for cheating. The editor just wants to tell everyone that marriage is established through love, so it should be maintained through love.