What do single men need most on Friday night? Of course, it's a nightclub girl hunting strategy! Many people say that it is very difficult to pick up girls in nightclubs, and all the techniques for picking up girls cannot be used. I don't know how to strike up a conversation. But it also has things that regular dating can't match: fast approaching, direct physical contact, and clusters of beautiful women you don't even meet during the day. Let the nightclub guru teach you how to pick up girls in the nightclub today.
Part I: Preparation
Indeed, the average man's biggest natural enemy is nightclubs. Many people say that it is very difficult to pick up girls in nightclubs, and all the techniques for picking up girls cannot be used. But it also has things that regular dating can't match: fast approaching, direct physical contact, and clusters of beautiful women you don't even meet during the day.
Who are you going with?
Easy, go with your best friends. However, if your goal is to attract a beautiful woman, then I don't recommend going with too many men. I will explain it in detail later.
If your friends don't like going to nightclubs and feel that they're not used to it, then you can try challenging yourself. Some people in the college go to nightclubs alone. Personally, I never do this, I just go with my friends. I don't recommend going alone, especially if you have no experience with it.
Dressing up for a nightclub girl
Your nightclub attire is always very important. Some of my friends who go to nightclubs with me often wear sloppy clothes. You're going to pick up girls, not move bricks! You must have unique and outstanding clothing, or you will definitely be eliminated at first sight. I will wear beautiful shirts, pants, and shoes. These clothes can make you stand out and make you stand out.
At the same time, you should also dress yourself reasonably. Before going out, shave and comb your hair.
In addition, you'd better ensure that your phone has sufficient power to facilitate receiving numbers, or use SMS and WeChat to hook up after receiving them.
Nightclub Picking Girls: Drinking?
This is just a small issue. Many people in the college say that going to a nightclub cannot drink too much alcohol, which can hinder your skills in picking up girls. I don't agree with this view. I believe that drinking alcohol is an important part of the nightclub experience.
You should drink some wine to cheer yourself up. The more you drink, the more confident you will become. So, I think you should drink just fine and feel happy, but don't get drunk!
Night Club Picking Girls - Dancing
This is the most important part of a nightclub. However, is this the reason why people go to nightclubs? "If you can't dance, your chances of catching a beautiful woman will be greatly reduced, but this is just a small obstacle.".
One way to become the king of the dance floor is to practice. This sounds difficult, but if you want to grab high scoring girls in nightclubs, you must do so.
This is what I did
First, I watched some introductory videos online to learn about other people's dance steps, and then practiced in front of the mirror in my room.
I also learned online that taking Salsa dance training classes can improve dance skills. So I signed up, which made me enjoy the joy and gave me the confidence to dance.
In this way, I began to feel incomparable. "I came to the nightclub and danced crazily. I think I must have got my sister.".
However, a friend told me that I danced like a fag... so I looked in the mirror and observed my dance steps. "I can't believe my appearance. My body movements are very wild and indulgent, but the biggest problem is that my hips twist like Cai Kangyong.".
"I seem to have gone from one extreme to the other. I used to be too inferiority complex and rigid in my actions, but now I have become too confident and unrestrained in my actions.". Therefore, I began to control myself, trying not to shake my hips too much, and strengthening my legs. This makes me look much prettier on the dance floor. Although I am not the best dancer in the world, my dancing skills continue to improve and seem endless. In fact, every time I dance, I make progress. This is why I say that practice is the best way to improve.
I also believe that adding more changes to the dance steps can help you. In the nightclub, everyone uses very similar dance gestures, and there is no change all night. And I like to change my dance steps with songs.
So, in short, practicing, practicing, practicing is the only way you can improve.
In addition, please pay attention not to be too wild and indulgent, pay attention to the pace of footsteps, and reduce upper body twisting. Lest you look like Gay.
At the same time, add more changes to the dance.
Part II: Methods
The most important thing, of course, is the method of picking up girls. Now, you are in a nightclub and want to find a girlfriend. What should you do?
At the bar
You came to the bar to buy some wine and found several hot girls around you. What should you do?
You turn to one of them and smile and say, "Hey! Did you have a good time?" It's as simple as that. This is your ice breaking method. Generally speaking, she will definitely give you a warm response, unless she is scheming. If this is the case, you'd better leave her quickly.
At this point, you can start introducing yourself. If after introducing yourself, you feel like you have nothing to say, you can say something like, "I don't seem to have seen you here before." This way, you can lead to a conversation that is widely available. For example, you can comment on the service of this store, which has a lot to say. From this topic, you can also talk about a lot of things. Try to use your imagination.
On the dance floor
Now, friends in the circle you left, dance on the dance floor. How do you take action against beautiful women? (Note: This technique is very useful for newcomers to nightclubs or very shy people.)
As I said earlier, it's best to dance in small groups. Dancing alone can feel like a loser without friends. Usually two people are enough, but it's a bit like homosexuality. So I think three people together is the most suitable, four people can also be, five people are okay. "No amount of it is suitable, which can make some simple methods of picking up girls unusable.". A large group of people dancing together is like a group of brothers going out for a party. A small group is more accessible. I have noticed that many beautiful women usually dance in small groups in nightclubs, so you can do the same.
Now, you've left your small circle, danced on the dance floor, and stared at a group of beautiful women dancing together. So, you gradually move towards them and come all the way to them. You can rub against one of them, or try to squeeze into their circle. Once you succeed in penetrating them, you succeed.
I have found that the above practices are more respectful and easier to achieve than the practice of rubbing behind a beautiful woman.
"Traditional" approach
This is a time-honored technique that is the foundation of all methods of picking up girls. You should know. You're in a nightclub and you're staring at a beautiful woman. At this point, you should make eye contact with her. Once she looks at you, give her a smile. If she gives you a smile back, then you can wave to her and then go next to her and start introducing yourself. That's it, it's easy!
You're dancing with your sister now
Yes, this part belongs to simple common sense. "I have seen beautiful women on the dance floor approach certain boys actively and rub them with their hips very provocatively, but these boys just stand idly and dance stiffly, thinking, 'My God! This girl is so good! What should I do?'" Most of you can ignore this part, but if you're the kind of guy I'm talking about, let's keep watching. ".
So, you're on the dance floor right now, and you're dancing with the Spicy Girl who made eye contact just now. She teases you, and you rub her butt. But what should you do next?
Of course, every situation is unique, and there is no fixed way for you to pick up girls on the dance floor. However, here are some general processes I commonly use for reference.
You danced with her, introduced yourself, and after a few minutes, you hugged her, looked her in the eye, and gave her a kiss. All the above actions should be carried out gently and slowly, without tongue kissing, unless she takes the initiative. Then, take a step back and look at her with a smile. If she is the same, then continue using the above techniques, but this time it requires a tongue kiss, but slowly.
Seize the moment and move your hand to her hips. "If she is unwilling, she usually politely gives a gesture of refusal, but most beautiful women like this.". After this period of time, touch her body upward until you touch her chest and gently rub it.
Similarly, if she is unwilling, she will express it clearly. If so, she probably won't come home with you this evening, so the best way is to give her a kiss and ask her for a phone number to end the conversation.
Anyway, if she can accept you rubbing her chest, hold it for a while, then move your lips to her ear and gently say, "Want to leave here?" If she gives a positive answer, take her away. If she refuses, either ask her for a phone call and end it; Either bring her back to your booth or make a transition to create a happy atmosphere.
If she's wearing a separate jacket, then
Continue kissing her, but after a while, reach into her jacket. If she doesn't object to your approach, this evening will definitely be very fragrant. If she lets you play with her chest like this, you can use your other hand to guide her around you.
Maintain this state for a period of time, then you can pull out your hand, touch her abdomen, and then reach into her underwear. Tease her with your fingers and guide her hand to more stimulating areas. After a while, she gently asked in her ear, "Don't you really want to leave here together?" If she still refused, it was mostly for ASD's sake, giving her some safe and thoughtful reasons, such as taking her for a special drink, and then taking her home without asking her permission.
Okay, that's almost all I want to say about nightclub hooking up. The above methods all come from my years of experience at night clubs. Good luck and I hope this post will be useful to you.